Is it wrong for a neutral type person to pursue more feminine looks?

[Jaimey]

Posted on: May 28, 2008, 07:27:32 PM
hehehe...don't worry, we'll corrupt bring you over to our weirdo humor soon enough.  >

Welcome to the land of insufferable thread hijacking 

Z

You call me a thread hijacker, Z?     I don't know what you're talking about!  And I was a good little androgyne, I sent my GINORMOUS anime list in a message instead of subjecting you all to my madness.  So there. 

[Kinkly]

Hmmm, for some reason, I enjoy reading what you have to say Kinkly. You might be a little terse, but for some reason, you are also hitting home, I guess. I also would like to hear from Jaimey. Both of you, I seem to enjoy listening to what you have to say. In addition, I'd like to hear what sd really thinks about this.

I'm glads you have enjoyed what I've typed,  I have post a fair bit on "mixed body for mixed mind" about this topic,  what do you mean by terse?

I Sometimes wonder what is would be like to be "normal"
I like me as i am though
I would like my body to reflect my mind but thats scary so i'll take it slow

[const]

what do you mean by terse?

I don't know. It just seems that you are a bit more concise in your writing than most. In other words, you aren't a very ostentatious type of person, I guess. Furthermore, you aren't frivolous; am I correct?

Personally, even from my limited view, you seem to me as a brutally honest person.

I am a little different. I am honest, but overly complex. I have an extreme tendency to make things out as worse than it might be.

In other words, I'm a pessimist.

Although this may be a great leap of faith, if there is someone you might be like, maybe it is Rene Descartes -- a philosopher. Anyway, keep up the writing Kinkly because I enjoy reading what you have to say.

Of course, I'm nothing but a fool...

[Shana A]

You call me a thread hijacker, Z?     I don't know what you're talking about! 

I wouldn't ever accuse anyone of hijacking threads Jaimey.... however if the shoe fits  >

Z

[NicholeW.]

"Is it wrong for a neutral type person to pursue more feminine looks?" No. Your comfort is what matters. Terse enough?

Nichole

[Kinkly]

thanks 4 the complement polymorphic

[tekla]

I would think its OK to go after any look, more or less fem, more or less butch, goth, emo, skatepunk, business drag. 

[Jaimey]

You call me a thread hijacker, Z?     I don't know what you're talking about! 

I wouldn't ever accuse anyone of hijacking threads Jaimey.... however if the shoe fits  >

Z

*GASP*   

...all right.  so MAYBE i've hijacked a thread here and there...


...okay, so I just read what this is.   I totally thought it was a Roman soldier or something...

[Nero]

...okay, so I just read what this is.   I totally thought it was a Roman soldier or something...

omg it's not? that's exactly what i thought!

[Jaimey]

...okay, so I just read what this is.   I totally thought it was a Roman soldier or something...

omg it's not? that's exactly what i thought!

It's not just me!!!  YAY!  Apparently, it's supposed to be a woman.  It says 'icon_female'.  What?  Really?  I don't know...

[sd]

No, we never stray from a topic... Never, ever, ever, not even a little. Especially Jaimey.

[const]

No, we never stray from a topic... Never, ever, ever, not even a little. Especially Jaimey.

haha...

Well, duh! Only those weirdos in the other forums do that sort of thing. 

By the way, sd, I want to know your two cents about this topic. So, please please, tell all what you think.

[sd]

By the way, sd, I want to know your two cents about this topic. So, please please, tell all what you think.

I don't usually get involved in serious discussions unless I have something significant to add.

As long as you are not hurting anyone else and you are willing to deal with the consequences (what others think), I say go for it. It helps that you are from a generation and at an age where you can get away with an awful lot and no one will think much of it. What I think really doesn't matter, what matters is what you want and are willing to do/deal with. It is up to you, there is no right or wrong on this issue, especially in this forum.  Whatever you want to do, most, if not everyone here will support you as long as they think you are sure of what you are doing and not moving too fast.

[Kinkly]

There is nothing wrong with wanting to do something It might be best only doing easily reversible things first and cheap things like makeup untill you know exactly what you want

[Lokaeign]

I'll also say you look feminine already, play with your hair style, that should help.

*nodnod*  Yeah, it's already quite femme, and if you did something to bring out the curl a little it would look even moreso.  Also, have you thought about colouring your hair?

[const]

Awww, thanks Lokaeign. I guess my hair is pretty bouncy and wavy. What could I do to make it more curly? To answer your question, I don't really want to change my hair's color. I like my hair the color it is -- which is really really dark brown.

[Seshatneferw]

former USA president Reagan said ketchup was a vegetable

Takes one to know one?  >

  Nfr

[Elwood]

I don't think it's wrong at all. I'd say a few steps more feminine would bring you closer to androgynous.

But you might not need surgery to do this. For instance, maybe a different hair style would help. I also know eyebrow shape makes a BIG difference. I plucked my eyebrows for a while, which looked really feminine. Now I don't so much, except between them, haha.

I say beauty is overrated. All the actors I think are beautiful all my friends seem to think are old/ugly.

[Shana A]

Takes one to know one?  >

Arg... adding up reagan plus both bushes.... 20 years of my adult life.... not sure I can take much more of this

Z

[Jaimey]

No, we never stray from a topic... Never, ever, ever, not even a little. Especially Jaimey.

I'd hate to have to come over there, sd...

I say beauty is overrated. All the actors I think are beautiful all my friends seem to think are old/ugly.

My tastes seem to be different than most people I know too.  Oh well.  More for me!