I was pretty sure my son knew, but today I just decided to sit him down and tell him for real, and tell him that no matter what I'm always his mom, and I'll always be there for him, like it's always been. I told him it's not a secret or anything. At first he played dumb like he always does when he doesn't really want to talk about stuff, but then he laughed and said duh, mom, it's so obvious!!!! LOL
I wanted him to know he could ask me anything. He's a cool kid and we've been best buds forever (he's my clone, LOL) I didn't think it would be an issue.
My brother is next...I've come within a mm of telling him twice, and last night my daughter said if he doesn't know he's really dense because it's sooo obvious ::insert teen eye roll here:: (we share a house, my brother, my kids, and I).
Jay