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SRS date confirmed!

Started by Caroline, June 04, 2008, 09:17:35 PM

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Caroline

I've had this date provisionally set for a while now but didn't want to make an announcement till I had the second referral letter and confirmation that everything was in hand.  In 4 weeks time I'm having SRS in the UK with James Bellringer!

The genital configuration that is right for me is essentially undeveloped/undifferentiated genitalia, I'm going to be reassigned to this state by an operation that's very similar to MTF type SRS but without vaginoplasty.  Bellringer has been fantastic, when I first saw him in September last year we discussed all the available options from a complete nullification to MTF type SRS, though I already knew what I wanted, it was just a case of making sure he was happy to do it.

I've been off estrogen and spiro for two weeks now and am on triptorelin injections to suppress testosterone.  The initial T spike from the triptorelin was HORRID, but now my testosterone is suppressed again I'm dealing with the menopausal symptoms ok.

I think the next 4 weeks are going to fly by.  Got plenty of stuff to organise before I go into hospital.  I'm stressing a bit but far less than I was about getting the second psych referral.  I had a medical for my Incapacity Benefit a couple of weeks ago (crappy timing!) and am waiting to hear back about that, so my financial situation is a bit uncertain too. 

Heh, I don't think it has 100% sunk in yet that I've REALLY made it through and this is REALLY happening.   I've been out as trans for over 5 years but spent most of that time convinced I didn't have the strength to make it through transition (persistant depression and anxiety issues had rendered me largely non-functional).  SO glad to have proven myself wrong!
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NicholeW.

Yah!! Congratulations, Andra!! Your excitment just runs through your post. ;) All the best and try not to set your clocks four-weeks ahead. OK? :)

All the very best,

Nichole
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TheBattler

I hope all goes well Andra.

Thinking of you.

Alice
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noeleena

hi... Andra . yea youll  be okay  i have some friends like you  so i do know some of what you are going through   ....hey ... youll do fine . oh yea you ll be so glad you are having the ops i have been through the ops  so i know how you feel ...... to be able to live as who you are ..... is just so neat .... when you go for you ops   just go with the flow just set your mind at rest think of it as the best time of ....your life .... okay i am so happy with what happened for me . i know. it just a part of those details we need to have done . so yea i am with you on this . take care &. all the best. ...noeleena...
Hi. from New Zealand, Im a woman of difference & intersex who is living life to the full.   we have 3 grown up kids and 11 grand kid's 6 boy's & 5 girl's,
Jos and i are still friends and  is very happy with her new life with someone.
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gothique11

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Nero

Congrats! So this is the same as MTF SRS just sans vagina? Never heard of anyone doing this except hiras.
Yay for the pioneer!  :eusa_clap:
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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Laura91

 :icon_hug: Congratulations, Andra (I already knew about this but I wanted to say it here too.)  ;)
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Caroline

Quote from: Nero on June 06, 2008, 03:06:04 PM
Congrats! So this is the same as MTF SRS just sans vagina? Never heard of anyone doing this except hiras.
Yay for the pioneer!  :eusa_clap:

Yeah basically.  Actually SRS without vaginoplasty is fairly common for older transwomen who don't want to be sexually active (I think most surgeons are wary of doing it on younger patients), or transwomen who have medical issues making SRS with vaginoplasty too risky.  It's just not talked about much for some reason.
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Buffy

Congrats Andra,

I hope everything goes well!

Buffy
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Caroline

I'll have no internet after tomorrow morning for a while so goodbye and I'll see you on the other side  ;D

Was feeling really anxious last week but much better now.  A kind of numb calmness has set in, and I'm just looking forward to that needle going in and fading into oblivion for a couple of hours. It's really here and really going to happen! :)
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NicholeW.

Enjoy the oblivion, Andra. Everything will go well and you'll be back and fine in no time. All the best.

Hugs,

Nichole
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Alison

I just heard from Andra's mom, they are out of surgery and doing great :)
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Seshatneferw

That's good to hear; thanks for letting us know.

  Nfr
Whoopee! Man, that may have been a small one for Neil, but it's a long one for me.
-- Pete Conrad, Apollo XII
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Caroline

Quote from: Alison on July 03, 2008, 04:51:17 PM
I just heard from Andra's mom, they are out of surgery and doing great :)

Indeed I am  ;D

Posted on: July 04, 2008, 07:51:07 AM
Mostly gone very smoothly so far, almost no pain.  Had a patient administered morphine drip for a while but didn't use it that much.  Now on paracetamol + voltarol. The staff here are all so lovely and helpful.  Surgeon came by last night and removed the big bandage around my groin.  He said the surgery went fine and the result looks good.  The bandage was reaaally tight, as soon as he left my blood pressure dropped to about 63/41 and I came close to passing out (due to the pressure release) but the nurses were great and quickly gave me oxygen and put me back on saline and I was never particularly scared.  Guess it would be wrong if it was 100% an easy ride  :P

Had surgery thursday evening and dropped off for a couple of hours afterwards but didn't sleep the rest of the night; last night got 5 hours, which isn't too bad.  I don't sleep well when not comfortable.  Back is beginning to hurt a little but at least I can get out of bed and stretch it later (they had me out of bed and into a chair yesterday, they like to do that asap to minimise DVT risk).

Waiting for breakfast now  ;D
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JCov212

Congrats, glad everything went well for you    ;D
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Caroline

Yay, being discharged today.  Catheter is out, peeing okish, swelling going down, not in much pain.  Staying at my parents' place till the weekend.

Yay!  ;D
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TheBattler

I hope you recover well Andra.

:icon_hug:

Alice
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Caroline

I went for my post-op follow-up on Thursday so I think it's the right time to do a follow-up to this thread :)

I pulled the stitching in a couple of places a few days after discharge due to over exerting myself (travelled back home from my parents' by train, long story) and I had some bleeding but all has healed up fine.  There were some gaping holes in the clitoral hood stitching and I was worried that I'd need revision surgery to fix it (clitoral hood revision after a single stage op isn't that uncommon) but it healed shut.  I've kept a log of photos to refer back to and it has been pretty darn amazing watching the healing progress week by week. 

I'm still a bit swollen but nowhere near as bad as I was (having a bigger trouser bulge AFTER surgery, what the hell is with that!) and I'm in no pain and walking is comfortable.  Peeing is a bit erratic but the surgeon says the urethra is placed fine so it's just a swelling issue I guess.  I think it's going to cosmetically turn out great once the skin either side settles and eventually tightens up.  I'm very very pleased at this stage. My energy levels aren't quite back to normal and I was very tired after spending 5 hours on the train on Thursday.  Starting to do some gentle exercise to build my stamina back up again.

Life is slowly returning to normal, just with one big problem out of the way for good \o/ (well, returning to what passes as normal for me anyway :P)
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Janet_Girl

Andra,

I am glad to hear you are doing so well.  You must be very excited to finally be yourself.

Much Love Sister,
Janet
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Robyn

Good news, Andra.  I'm glad everything went well for you.

Robyn
When we walk to the edge of all the light we have and take the step into the darkness of the unknown, we must believe that one of two things will happen. There will be something solid for us to stand on or we will be taught to fly. — Patrick Overton
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