Your kidding right? I grew up on a ranch out West, and like a good hippie spend more than enough time (10 years) living out on a farm in Iowa. Bet I've dug a lot more ditches than you have. And laid a lot more irrigation pipe too.
And I don't do PHD type work (sorry Nichole I know you hate this lecture) I'm a union journeyman, I begin each day by unloading 53 foot semi trucks and end the day by loading 53 foot semi trucks, with boxes that are five feet long, by three feet wide, and three feet deep filled with solid pure copper cable. In between those two moments, and that like 12 hours at least ........ I unpack that stuff, move it, set it up, pack it up, tear it down, and somewhere in there between a thousand to 20 thousand people get the show of their life. In some of the most famous venues in rock music, with bands that you even know.
I work with people who barely made it thought high school, and with people who have advanced degrees from places like MIT. We are all there for the same reason. We love the show.
I live for the sun, I'm much darker than my Mexican GF, a fact that I point out to her all the time. (She hates it.) But I am first, last and always, a California Girl.
But I do live a PHD life. I work about 30 weeks a year (based on a 40 hour work week) the fact that I bunch that work up in fewer days, well, that works for me. The fact that I never work in January so I can ski, and try hard not to work in the summer, because you only have so many summers, well, that's my choice. That a lot of my work is in time and a half, to double time, well, that's just less time I have to work, more time I have to ski.
I don't look down on anyone who really works. I have nothing but contempt for those who sit on the sideline and don't do squat.
And I had my dream job long before I ever went for my first college degree. It just took me a few decades to understand that. But, I know from my studies that I'm not the first person to go around the world only to find out that were I should be was where I was to begin with. But, that makes it so much sweeter in the long run in the end.