Quote from: lisagurl on August 18, 2008, 02:30:46 PM
Quotesame-sex marriage
The slick politics are in the word marriage. Nothing in the constitution mentions marriage so Obama will veto any such proposal including heterosexual marriage. Marriage could be considered a religious term like baptismal certificate.
The fight might end when all legal documents replace the word marriage with civil union contract as did the birth certificate. So all unions between different sexes and same sex will be issued a civil union document from the Government. If you also want a marriage document then you need to get it at a church.
True, and it would be a good way out to appease the church lumpen in the US. However, it's arguable that since the liberal revolutions of the 18th century "marriage" is not a religious-only word anymore and it's unfair to just give away all its deep meaning in the collective psyche to one sector of the population only (even if the majority). When getting married, heterosexual couples get a marriage certificate which defines their standing in regards to society at large and the economics of the nation. Religious ceremony or not, this is codified in laws. Often I think that we confuse "marriage" with religion-dependent terms such as "priest", "preacher" or "nun". It hasn't been so for centuries now, whatever the fundamentalists in the US might say.
"Marriage" is union, nurturing, strength (in theory, of course

); "civil union" is an obscure term signifying nothing, therefore adopting it exclusively for same-sex couples is the same as saying they deserve less than marriage.
Still, a good first step though.