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Started by DarthKitty, June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM

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DarthKitty

New Glasses? Check.
Brain screwed on correctly? Working on that.
Coworkers informed? Check.
HR informed? Check.
New worktastic wardrobe? Half-check.
Bonfire for male clothes scheduled for Friday? Check.
New snappy professional hairstyle? Hrm...

Every time I turn around someone else mentions something that's just an absolute "essential" that I'm going to need to get/going to need to do.

So, question: What's on everyone's must-have shopping list for going full-time?

-Kit
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Buffy

Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM
New Glasses? Check.
Brain screwed on correctly? Working on that.
Coworkers informed? Check.
HR informed? Check.
New worktastic wardrobe? Half-check.
Bonfire for male clothes scheduled for Friday? Check.
New snappy professional hairstyle? Hrm...

Every time I turn around someone else mentions something that's just an absolute "essential" that I'm going to need to get/going to need to do.

So, question: What's on everyone's must-have shopping list for going full-time?

-Kit


Courage... but you have that in abundance DarthKitty
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Joyce

A lot more of the mundane things than you probably have.  In my case, spanx, undies, shells and shirts, work shoes, and that sort of thing. 

Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM
New Glasses? Check.
Brain screwed on correctly? Working on that.
Coworkers informed? Check.
HR informed? Check.
New worktastic wardrobe? Half-check.
Bonfire for male clothes scheduled for Friday? Check.
New snappy professional hairstyle? Hrm...

Every time I turn around someone else mentions something that's just an absolute "essential" that I'm going to need to get/going to need to do.

So, question: What's on everyone's must-have shopping list for going full-time?

-Kit
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tekla

I've always found that no matter what I do a sense of humor is important and there is no substitute for it.  Remember if you can laugh at yourself, you will always be amused.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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NicholeW.

Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM
New Glasses? Check.
Brain screwed on correctly? Working on that.
Coworkers informed? Check.
HR informed? Check.
New worktastic wardrobe? Half-check.
Bonfire for male clothes scheduled for Friday? Check.
New snappy professional hairstyle? Hrm...

Every time I turn around someone else mentions something that's just an absolute "essential" that I'm going to need to get/going to need to do.

So, question: What's on everyone's must-have shopping list for going full-time?

-Kit

Confidence and ignoring that voice in your head that says: everyone knows this is your first time. And most of the other stuff THAT little voice says.

Congrats on going fulltime, Kit.

Hugs,

Nichole


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cindybc

Ya congratulations Kit on going full time and don't worry if you don't remember most of the stuff you have on that list, just do what feel right or comfortable for a girl like you to do.

Cindy
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JonasCarminis

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JENNIFER

From a female perspective, my biggest problem at this moment in time is with shoes.  I am struggling to find footwear that does not rip the skin from me heels, it is summer, tights/pantyhose or socks simply do not go well with skirts when the temperatures are high thus I wear shoes barefoot, as all women do.  Maybe my choice of footwear is in error, I blame not growing up from childhood as a girl and learning from my female peers  :(
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Scratchy Wilson

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Lisbeth

Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM
New worktastic wardrobe? Half-check.

That's always the biggest one.  When you get to Thursday and you've run out of things to wear, you are in trouble.
"Anyone who attempts to play the 'real transsexual' card should be summarily dismissed, as they are merely engaging in name calling rather than serious debate."
--Julia Serano

http://juliaserano.blogspot.com/2011/09/transsexual-versus-transgender.html
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JENNIFER

Quote from: Lisbeth on June 11, 2008, 03:30:35 PM
Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM
New worktastic wardrobe? Half-check.

That's always the biggest one.  When you get to Thursday and you've run out of things to wear, you are in trouble.

Dress down Fridays  :angel:
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Kate

Quote from: JENNIFER on June 11, 2008, 02:56:20 PM
I am struggling to find footwear that does not rip the skin from me heels...

ROFL, welcome to womanhood! If you find such mythical items, please do tell!!!

I just go with sandals all summer. Cool and comfy, and work with nearly anything.

Otherwise, with shoes I always end up sticking bandaids on my heels and cardboard inserts in the backs of the shoes to reduce the agony ;)

~Kate~
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Laura91

New Glasses
Skirt-suit outfit for my court date (even though it is still a few months away)
Shoes to match the outfit
Possibly a little bit of trimming of my hair
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Hypatia

Just before going fulltime last year, I found an affordable and stylish black Tahari skirt suit at Burlington Coat Factory for a fraction of what a nice suit would cost elsewhere, and some pretty blouses to go with it. I took my best girlfriend shopping with me, and she helped a lot with picking out the best looks for me.

I buy all my shoes from Payless. Ditto on the stylishness and savings. They have larger women's sizes too. I found a very workalicious pair of black pumps for only a few bucks, a few weeks before beginning full time.

When I went fulltime, I switched from contact lenses to glasses, since the frames help to feminize my appearance. I had already bought feminine frames for my glasses months from a discount optician before fulltime, and paid about half of what they would cost elsewhere.

However, the morning of my first day of fulltime, I splurged all-out at a good salon for a nice hairstyle, spent way more than I could afford, but it was worth it. When I walked into work, people were amazed I was able to look that good as a woman. I received many expressions of support and admiration from my colleagues that day. I consider it the happiest day of my (pre-op) life. Coincidentally, it was October 11-- National Coming Out Day.
Here's what I find about compromise--
don't do it if it hurts inside,
'cause either way you're screwed,
eventually you'll find
you may as well feel good;
you may as well have some pride

--Indigo Girls
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Lisbeth

Quote from: JENNIFER on June 11, 2008, 03:39:01 PM
Quote from: Lisbeth on June 11, 2008, 03:30:35 PM
Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM
New worktastic wardrobe? Half-check.
That's always the biggest one.  When you get to Thursday and you've run out of things to wear, you are in trouble.
Dress down Fridays  :angel:

I've known a number of girls who would get to Friday and have nothing left but a slut suit.
"Anyone who attempts to play the 'real transsexual' card should be summarily dismissed, as they are merely engaging in name calling rather than serious debate."
--Julia Serano

http://juliaserano.blogspot.com/2011/09/transsexual-versus-transgender.html
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TheBattler

Quote from: Lisbeth on June 11, 2008, 10:05:43 PM
Quote from: JENNIFER on June 11, 2008, 03:39:01 PM
Quote from: Lisbeth on June 11, 2008, 03:30:35 PM
Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM
New worktastic wardrobe? Half-check.
That's always the biggest one.  When you get to Thursday and you've run out of things to wear, you are in trouble.
Dress down Fridays  :angel:

I've known a number of girls who would get to Friday and have nothing left but a slut suit.

Sounds like I will need to do some more shopping before I go FT  ;D.

And Darth, I do not recall Dawn unscrewing your brain but it seams she only did half the job. I will consult her when she returns about that losse screw  :D.

Alice
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MCMCyn

Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM

Bonfire for male clothes scheduled for Friday? Check.
-Kit

That's not only too funny, it's also awesome!

cindybc

Hi DarthKitty 

I dropped all my male clothes off at the Salvation army, had already talked to my program manager at work about my coming out, and started my full time the same day. Left me a bit dizzy at the end of the day but I was so very grateful and relieved that I had made my move. Most times I do things spontaneously before I change my mind.

Cindy
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Sandy

When I was planning my coming out with my HR manager, she dropped a real bombshell on me.

She just turned to me and said "Well, Sandy, when do you want to come out, a couple of weeks or so?"

At this point I absolutely freaked!  Up to that point I had been full time everywhere but at work, but all my clothes were casual.  I had virtually no outfits that worked in a corporate environment.  I told her that and asked if we could delay it a few weeks while I got a minimal wardrobe together.

Finding shoes was, and still is, a problem, but also getting together enough corporate style outfits in a short period of time turned out to be a real challange.  It did mean I had a lot of shopping to do, so there was an up side to all of it!  :D

Anyway, congratulations DK!  Soon you'll fall into the regular routine of being full time.  And while it may become routine, you'll never take it for granted!

-Sandy
Out of the darkness, into the light.
Following my bliss.
I am complete...
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Kate

Quote from: DarthKitty on June 10, 2008, 04:37:23 PM
So, question: What's on everyone's must-have shopping list for going full-time?

More TIME in the mornings ;)

~Kate~
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