Well on the one hand Black Rabbit you look a bit like an ex girlfriend of mine, but then she sometimes got mistaken for being male anyway. Personally dont care how people see me, at times i have spent hours putting on make up trying to look really girly only to go out in public and have people shout out "->-bleeped-<-" and then there have been occasions at work when i have been reffered to as "love" by men, only to have them say sorry when they realise i am a bloke (well in their eyes anyway) Feel that on the inside i am more female than male and as its my life thats all that counts.