Hey honey, people like you make the world go 'round. And even if you can't help all, you at least have a chance of making a difference when it might really matter to someone, so for those people you save from that life, you're an angel. Still, however, there are people, who, for whatever reason, are not into the whole 'regular life' 'job' deal. And I've been there too.
I will say, that every year at thanksgiving and christmas, I put on my best little outfit and serve meals to homeless people - and no, it does not make me a good person, or even a better person, its just about being a person - but I also know that gender is not the only thing in life that matters.