Hi all. I'm glad to have found this place!
I guess I am like most here so I will spare you the details because you know them I am sure. But I am a lifelong transgendered and a sissy. Have wanted to be a girl every since I can remember. Played with dolls and played house with the girls at a very young age.
Later I began getting into my sister's undies. I am lucky in that I have a sister who is just a year older than me, so we were close in size. Like many of us I got caught at it by both my sister and my mother. My mother did not give me any grief about it because it was very obvious that was the way I was -- a sissy. My sister was mad at first because I was getting into her stuff but she was cool about it too. She actually gave me some hand-me-downs that not only included undies, but also other clothes like dresses, skirts, shorts, shoes and tops that she no longer wanted. She lives about 15 miles from me and I still love her so much to this day for being like that.
You may be asking, what about your dad? Well he was not much of a factor in my life. He was not a bad guy; he just did not have anything to do with any of his kids. He went to work then hit the bars or did stuff with his buddies and not his family. He never took me to ballgames, fishing or anything like that. If my mother told him what I was caught at he probably then wanted less to do with me. So I hung around with my mom and sisters and learned how to cook and clean and sew and stuff like that. But I was quite good at it!
Most of my friends back then were girls and that seemed to be the case throughout my life and even today I have mostly women friends. I don't hang out with any guys.
Growing up, I did have one close sissy friend named Timmy and we would go up into this apartment on the third floor of his house in our early teens and "play house." It was there that we would dress up and we would also get nakie in bed and hug and kiss like two sissies. Later, a couple of boys joined us and, well, I guess I had better talk about that further in the sexuality area of the forum!
I have always been attracted to both sexes and have always been submissive to both. That went on until I met my wife to be a few years after college graduation. I am so lucky! She is beautiful and fit and strong-willed. I did not tell her all about me until after we were married but she knew because I was so submissive to her in every way. She loves me for that because apparently -- and she has never talked much about this -- she was in a relationship where a guy was abusive to her. And she swore that that would never happen again.
So she is the dominant partner and I am her girl. I am quite girlie, but I have never had a strong desire to put on a wig and dress and go out into public. I have always just been me. I dress in girl's clothes that I can get away with. Like right now I am wearing girl's short denim shorts and a girl's sleeveless top and flipflops. Quite girlie, but I can walk into Wal-Mart like that. I am shaved smooth all over.
I am so lucky that my wife loves me for the way I am because there are those of us who are nowhere near that fortunate. And some have even been divorced over that. But my wife leads the way in all things and I do the housework and take care of money, car and other matters for her. That gives her time for her leisure activities and she loves that. Her friends have husbands who try to control them -- one recently divorced her husband because of that very thing.
My wife is the opposite of me. She has a lot of male friends and is always going to dinner with men. And she goes out dancing and to clubs with other men because I do not dance at all. I am so bad at it. She works out with men too. As far as I know she just loves the company of real men and she has not be unfaithful. But I have told her that if she needed to have sex with a real man that it was her call.
This is my intro. If I think of anything else I will add it here. And if you have any comments or questions, I would be happy to address them.
stevie
