Monica is definitely exactly spot-on. And you see it within transsexual groups as well, that discomfort with the difference. Ya know, it matters not what someone does to make a living, how much they make or what ethnic background they have. Transsexuality doesn't just appear in white, middle to upper class, and well-heeled people.
And that's a good thing. If it did then those who spend a lot of time telling us and others that we are 'crazy,' demonic Satan-spawn might have some reason to at least accept the first of those falsities. IMO, it's high-time for the community to get that right. "Those people," yes all of us, need to be accepted for whom we are: human beings doing the best that we are able.
That there are differences should be seen by "the community" as being yet another srgument that being trans is a universal human characteristic, not just some fanciful imagining by bored, decadent Caucasians who have more money than they have sense.
Nichole