ok, yeah ladies i am out to some of them, it would have made no difference if i went, because i would have worn like t-shirt and jeans cause she said some of her man's family just isn't comfortable with that. when people see me for the first time,, all they see is female unless i absolutely have to uncorrect them. some of the people that went i only see for the first time. i guess other little kids and boys were there, plus a male cousin who drove an hour, so yeah i'm quite offended, plus this set of family cousin "couldn't come" to my wife's bridal shower, so yeah, i'm quite upset. maybe she just figured i'd be bored or something i don't know.....some of the family i won't even see until october and then i'll probably see them again, and then others i only see once a year if that, so it's kind of hard to show up on their doorstep and say..this is who i am now...tho her dad's side of the family has never referred to by my name and when i do go see them i'm always bored cause the girls don't talk to me and the guys are all watching footballl(yuck).....i guess i'll just have to wait and see if she says anything next time i see her..
Warrior Princess,
Mickie
