Accused of using fake pics on My Space

[jonnismith]

I stand accused of posting fake pics of myself on my My Space profile. This has happened to me twice in the past week and I don't understand it.

What do they expect to see one of the Billy Goat gruff in a dress or maybe Bud Light's Ladie's Night guys? I guess I must not fit their pre-conceived idea of what a transsexual looks like.
Excuse me for having very nice skin, high cheek bones,long hair, feminine features and OMG boobs. I am not even wearing make-up in those pics either.

Has this happened to anyone else or is it just me?

[Lori]

Ok...do you have a link to your MYSPACE page?

[je]

I wish I had more feminine features. Don't get me wrong I do have a good bit of femininity in my face and body, but I also have some nasty masculine features to counter that femininity. It sucks, but that is life.

I know this is off topic, but I just had to say it. The temptation overcame me.

[jonnismith]

The thing I find perplexing is that the folder they were talking about is for friends only. I just don't understand how they were able to see my friends only viewable folder.
Here is a link http://www.myspace.com/jonni55125


Posted on: June 22, 2008, 03:11:32 PM

I wish I had more feminine features. Don't get me wrong I do have a good bit of femininity in my face and body, but I also have some nasty masculine features to counter that femininity. It sucks, but that is life.

I know this is off topic, but I just had to say it. The temptation overcame me.

That's allright.
I have primary hypogonadism from crytporchidism, so mother nature was kind to me in a cruel way. My thyroid did produce enough T to give me  a late puberty and then some facial hair in my 20's (now gone) and a little case of man jaw.
My endo thought I had Klinefelter's due to the way I looked and my blood levels long before hrt.
I look back on photos of my childhood and teens years and I know why my mother always said " you were always so pretty". Kind of an odd thing for a mother to say to her son!

[Beyond]

I stand accused of posting fake pics of myself on my My Space profile. This has happened to me twice in the past week and I don't understand it.

What do they expect to see one of the Billy Goat gruff in a dress or maybe Bud Light's Ladie's Night guys? I guess I must not fit their pre-conceived idea of what a transsexual looks like.
Excuse me for having very nice skin, high cheek bones,long hair, feminine features and OMG boobs. I am not even wearing make-up in those pics either.

Has this happened to anyone else or is it just me?

Their stupidity in cyberspace is your gain in 3D.  Kind of proves that it is often easier to blend than we fear.  Haven't these guys heard of Tula Cossey?  (Bond Girl)

Seriously I'd take this as a positive confidence booster.

[Keira]

Well, many passable TS on myspace or facebook, never
say they are so, so nobody knows. Those that do post
and are out and proud are often the least passable, often
because they don't want to fit the binary.

So, if you say your TS and look good they don't have
much to compare with.

I'm on facebook and I get guys stating that I look like
a goddess and want to be my undying "friend" once
a week  . Not sure they'd say that if they knew I was TS...

[jonnismith]

Here is the reply I got from this young lady after she denied my friend request. I asked her if it was due to me being transsexual and this is her reply:

"Hi Jonni,
To tell you truth, I had no problem with you being transsexual. I didn't like that the photos were not you. My motto is be yourself.""

She is a GG and couldn't figure out they were real pics of myself....Does that mean I am there?

Their stupidity in cyberspace is your gain in 3D.  Kind of proves that it is often easier to blend than we fear.  Haven't these guys heard of Tula Cossey?  (Bond Girl)

Seriously I'd take this as a positive confidence booster.

Thanks I think I needed to hear that form someone other than myself. I don't see what they see.

Well, many passable TS on myspace or facebook, never
say they are so, so nobody knows. Those that do post
and are out and proud are often the least passable, often
because they don't want to fit the binary.

So, if you say your TS and look good they don't have
much to compare with.

I'm on facebook and I get guys stating that I look like
a goddess and want to be my undying "friend" once
a week  . Not sure they'd say that if they knew I was TS...

Thank you too Keira. I have considered doing this for a while. Maybe it will keep the ->-bleeped-<-s away! LOL Then I will just have to deal with the run of the mill stalkers instead! LOL

[bethzerosix]

the only reason that i can think that people would think that your pics were not you is that your profile says that you are 40 and you look about 15

i get the fake picture thing all the time too. like it was drawn or something..lol. jj.

[jonnismith]

the only reason that i can think that people would think that your pics were not you is that your profile says that you are 40 and you look about 15

i get the fake picture thing all the time too. like it was drawn or something..lol. jj.

That is so sweet of you to say! .  That explains why I get carded all the time.

[Lori]

The user you're trying to view has set all their photos to private.


I feel like I'm on a quest.

[sd]

I just don't understand how they were able to see my friends only viewable folder.

There are certain websites that go right around those blocks and reveal your pictures.

[amie]

I stand accused of posting fake pics of myself on my My Space profile. This has happened to me twice in the past week and I don't understand it.

What do they expect to see one of the Billy Goat gruff in a dress or maybe Bud Light's Ladie's Night guys? I guess I must not fit their pre-conceived idea of what a transsexual looks like.
Excuse me for having very nice skin, high cheek bones,long hair, feminine features and OMG boobs. I am not even wearing make-up in those pics either.

Has this happened to anyone else or is it just me?

Hasn't happened to me, but good for you. I would derive great pleasure from that if I were you.

[Elwood]

Hahaha.

I have people ask why my MySpace still says "female." They believe the picture more than the page. Well, it says female because my mom doesn't want me to be trans, and she's on MySpace. I'm afraid she'll freak if she sees my page saying "male."

Don't feel bad. It just means you're much prettier than they'd expect. Doesn't it feel great to look good? 

Wow... Can I add you, Jonni? Or do you only add people you're close to?