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Started by tamerisk40, August 24, 2008, 11:15:13 AM

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tamerisk40

I have been here several days, and until now was in observation mode only.
I am and will without any insult intended to anyone here remain male. Several years ago I met a very beautiful woman, who I had the pleasure to spend time with.
Our work brought us together, and after several months we had shared many personal things about ourselves, and had leaned on each other several times for support.
One weekend while on business, we were in one of the suites working into the early hours of the morning on a presentation.
We both came to the point of need at that moment together. It was at that point that she revealed to me both of her sexes.
She did not surprise me, but shared with me her secret before we undressed.
And at that point in our relationship it would not have mattered to me anyhow.
It was for me beautiful, for the simple fact that she took a huge chance in trusting me with her secret, not only on a professional level, but on a personal level.
It completely changed me forever, not only in mind, but matter. I have never been taken, but I can honestly say it was the most romantic, erotic, experiences I have ever had.
Anyway, we remained together for over a year, until she was offered a chance to move up, which ment relocation to Europe.
We were both excited and in distress for the decision that had to be made.
She came to the decision of staying, which I could not allow, for the simple reason that it would have been career suicide for her.
After expressing my decision, it was as if the weight of the world had been lifted off her shoulders, but yet her emotions were still fighting a small scale civil war.
The next thirty days were a time for us to form a relationship template, and pretty much for me, it was a decision to let her fly, without any strings, weights, or attachments.
To attach anything to her would cripple her in pursuit of her career dreams.
So after finding this site, I thought it would be kinda like therapy to me to hang out with you all, and who knows maybe something more.
I guess at least a complete male wall to bounce thoughts off of, if you would like?
One word of warning! I will be honest with any answer I have, but would never wish you insult, or hurt you.
So any how that's me, and if my being here makes you uncomfortable, please let me know, and I will evaporate without question......Tamerisk
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tinkerbell

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Hello Tamerisk and welcome to Susan's!

Thanks so much for introducing yourself.  Please take a few moments to get familiar with all the boards of the site, review the site rules before posting, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page.  We look forward to your future posts and participation.  Enjoy your stay :)

tink :icon_chick:
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Windrider

Hi and welcome from another spouse :) You already sound like a wonderful and caring person. I do hope you and your lady keep in touch. Danielle and I had a LDR (long distance relationship) recently and even though it was only 3 months, it felt like forever!

Oh, and I'm another honesty advocate :) Transition and relationships are difficult enough without keeping secrets or letting stuff get to you :)

Glad to have you aboard!

WR
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tamerisk40

Thanks WR,
Really after our initial intimacy, there was never ever really anything that ever bothered me about our relationship.
She was naturally born with both, and both worked! It will be two two years this December, but she is doing well.
We write occassionally, but just to exchange hello's, and how are you's. I decided that if it ever works, it will work in it's time, not ours.
I have been out to dinner, and events with several women since, but nothing as serious as she.
Please excuse the fact that I will not use her name or mine, just trying to keep her safe...TAMERISK.
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