Hi, Pica Pica, it is sufficiently accurate for our representation of the diversity of human behaviour, beliefs and preferences. I think it's a good start for this particular topic. I could elaborate but then it would only be my views being expressed.
So one finds it safer to walk the tight rope over the falls because it feels safer than to stop and have to make a choice as to which is safest way one wants to step off the rope. Ze/hir will still find themselves in the same peril in the end no matter which way they step off the rope. Well, whether I am right or wrong in my observations is irrelevant. This post is just my own thoughts being expressed. Though I may have been unwilling to have a relationship with neither a man nor a woman possibly stems from abusive experiences I had with a couple of member of the opposite sex.
I still continued to have the secret desire to be a girl from all the way back to an early age. Because of the nature and diversity of the gender preferences of humanity, each will end up having a different piece of the same puzzle in the end. It is not wrong, good, or indifferent. It only is the way it is. Maybe it's a test. In that case just follow what you believe to be from the heart.
Cindy