Jealous of women?

[J.T.]

I don't think i've ever been jealous of women for one second... i just don't understand them.  they're a foreign species.

[soldierjane]

Before I realized my trans issues, I envied those that were just so feminine and could pull it off.  I spent years trying (intermittent; easier to fall back to no makeup, tee shirts, jeans, and comfy sneakers!!) to do it and I felt fake, like a fraud, like I really wasn't a woman, and was very uncomfortable.  Not only with the dressy shoes and clothes, but the whole look.  On the surface maybe others thought I looked great; inside I felt awful.

If I'm jealous of anything, it's that easy casualness that cis-gendered people have with themselves.  They're comfortable in their own skin.  And that is what I am trying to achieve.

Jay

Probably the time those girls spend being pretty and those cats cool, you spend dealing with your GID. Welcome to the club

[Ciarquin]

I just thought of another possible reason. When I see beautiful men I'm usually jealous of them, so perhaps I've come to associate finding someone beautiful with envy?

I'm far more interested in what a person has going on in their life than what they look like, assuming they are not butt ugly.

I certainly care more about what a person is like and what they're doing than how they look. That doesn't mean you can't appreciate beauty, though.

Checking them out? Lol rad. Man I don't even hardly associate with females any more let alone check them out. You remind me of me though, I am, as well a total ass man. Every time another man even walks by my eyes go SHOOM straight to the arse.

I never notice what people's arses look like. Never seen the appeal of 'em, and don't pay any attention to them either. As for breasts...I only tend to notice those if they're really big and I'm think "Oh <expletive>, they can get that big?!" or "That must hurt her back..." Most of the time I look at people's hair and clothes anyway.

Yes, they do have those!! Although some of the prettiest I cannot imagine wearing anywhere but maybe a costume party or a circle.

You guys have some of the absolutely most interesting threads!! Not so interesting I'd be willing to ever be a guy, but some really creative and interesting threads.

You all just rock.

Nichole

Thanks Nichole. I thought it was a tad ridiculous when I first posted it...

And yeah, most of these probably aren't really something you'd wear just anywhere.

[findingreason]

Hey boys,

Quite an interesting thread here. I have some problems like this too; but only the other way around. I look really good as a guy, but for some dumb reason or other, I am still envious of other guys, and I don't why. Maybe to this day I still want to be normal. But, as trapthavok stated, normal is most definitely overrated.

But, I am also REALLY envious of women, as I was born and grew up in this masculine male body. Quite confusing as hell if you ask me. But then again, I just started confronting this mess about 5-6 months ago.

It's like I have a really good male body, and I "should" be thankful, but I just want/wish to live as a woman, the way it should be.

[kestin]

I've never been jealous of women's physicality... but definitely their comfort with it. Like others here, I confused my attraction to them with 'envy'. The opposite goes with blokes, who I definitely envious of. Man, I wanted those wide shoulders and small hips for myself!

And to go with the other topic, I usually tend to notice boobs... but I like all sorts! Most of the time I like smaller ones more though... but damn! If I see a woman with nice hips I have to stop myself from staring. One time I saw this woman walking towards me and she had a really nice slender figure with decent boobage, but then her hips were awesomely wide and I was all

"Whoa."

I literally almost stopped, just to stare at her hips as she walked past and had to pick my jaw up off the sidewalk.

*cough*

So I guess I'm more of a 'hip' person? XD There's just something so sexy about the way they flare out from the waist... nom, nom, nom...