Day to day living

[Nicky]

I'm the same, I just do what feels right. But I do feel pressure to conform. We probably all have different needs as to what we need to do to feel comfortable and this is balanced with how much pressure we feel or can take externaly and internaly. Often the internal and extenal pressures are so high I start to feel squeezed.

[dina_hastings]

So...everyone pretty much decides how they do it for themselves?

pretty much.

Honestly, I think that's what I wanted to hear.

[Pica Pica]

that's good then.

[Kinkly]

Society has rules for being male & female but not androgyne.  I try to push the limits of society's male rules but conform enough to stay safe.  I feel bad when I'm excluded because I'm not female