Being Safe In Restrooms
By AMY DICKINSON
August 31, 2008
http://www.courant.com/features/lifestyle/hc-amy0831.artaug31,0,1888134.storyDEAR AMY: Recently, I was in a public restroom at a large convention center in an area where no one else was around. Upon entering the restroom, a gentleman came out of the stall. I was rather uncomfortable and was about to blurt out, "Excuse me, but this is a ladies room."
But then it occurred to me that this person might be very masculine-looking. He or she was wearing a baseball cap and very manly clothing.
I stopped myself because I did not want to be insulting, but I was also uncomfortable and nervous. I don't care if the person was transsexual, but if it was, in fact, a man, I would have felt unsafe.