I'm OK with the "my boyfriend wants" part I have known him over a year and dated now over 3 months, I trust him and we do, do some light BDSM play and I like being the bottom

I just never considered it, I took your advice and went to BME a very cool site BTW we decided together to go for it both nipples and our tongues we are checking into studios in our area I'll keep ya posted.....