Transgender groom
http://offbeatbride.com/2008/09/transgender-groom9/29/2008
Where is my manual on throwing a wedding with a partner who is
transgender?! Both of us previously identified as lesbians, but now
it's "Hey, I don't have a girlfriend anymore but a boyfriend, but I'm
still gay, but we're getting legally married as male and female, but
but but..." Do I let guests show up and see my big queer event with my
male partner and have them think whatever they want? -Becky