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My Mum I THOUGH ACCEPTED ME!!!!!

Started by Cristasphoto, October 15, 2008, 11:46:59 PM

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Cristasphoto

Well after "reuniting" with my Family my Mother seemed ok with me and my gender....
Now recently for the last few months she makes offbeat comments..
Things that tell me she is tryin to send me clues she finds me disgusting
I now realize that she is a BUM
And a coke head
YEs as inn COCAINE!!!!
I caught her WITH THE COKE!!!!
And The ONLY REASON why she allows me around is because this house is Mine and my younger sisterr's whom is 90 percent okay with me....
And I pay 95 percent of the bills
via my SSI/SSDI
Im about to disown my family again after reuniting in February...
Im 29 now
and I was like 16 when I ran away from my Grandparents whom was "raising" me...
Sorry bout the rambling but JEEZ Im already SEVERLEY Suicidal
and now this Crap....
When It rain It pours eh!!!????!!!
Any suggestions
Thanks
Crista
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Nero

Hey Christa. hang in there sweetie. sorry things suck right now.
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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Cristasphoto

Thanks LOL
at least now I have closure of what my family is like Etc..
Muchest Love
Crista
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trapthavok

Sorry that things suck for you. Sometimes they get better, sometimes they don't, so I don't want to give you false hope. Just know that if you ever need a shoulder to lean on or someone to talk to, you're in the right place :) Sorry I suck with the advice thing, it's also 2 am here and I need to wake up for class eventually :icon_hug:
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cindybc

Hi Cristasphoto, Well, I guess a welcome to Susan's is appropriate for a starter.

There will be others here who will come around so you won't be alone for long and may ask all the questions you desire from them. I am truly uncertain here as to what to say except that at least you are old enough to make your own decisions and you and your sister own the house. Don't realy know much about the law, I got taken to the cleaners by my ex, but that's nearly thirty years ago.

It would seem though that if youre mom is posing any kind of danger to either one of you, even if only in the form of threats physically or verbally, I would make preparations to have here removed from the house. It is your legal right if you and your sister own the house and she is a potential danger to the both of you, especially when she is using.

I know some about such drugs, It can potentially be a volatile substance. I had a friend who was on the stuff, I ended up having her three children in my care for two years after she was taken away, and I was just beginning my life full time as a woman.

Cindy
   
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Cristasphoto

Thanks everyone LOL
Yeah Actually Im gettin my own aprtment pretty soon.
And I swear to God She is NOT ever going to be welcome in my life...
I dont care if I succeeded at sui tommorow or if I lived to 1000
I didnt speak to ANY of my family for 12 years
they didnt know where I was LOL
Soooo I mean what I say.
Heck I dont drink,smoke,nor drug
and I NEVER tolerated that stuff nor especially ABUSIVE behavior
Anyhows on a brighter subject
I have whom I need its my forums and
Electronics LOL

PS Oh
Yeah she has threatened me dozens of times and I just ignore her
she ALWAYS tryin to pick fights.
Mainly because I am very much against fighting, violence especially within the family...
and besides you cant really diss your mother cause she gave birth..
Beyond that
Were through LOL

Muchest Love
Always
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cindybc

Hi  Cristasphoto, I beleive you are making a wise decision in getting your own apartment. I feel the same about my family, I never had any arguments or any disputes with them but they weren't there when I needed them and they still act like I am no longer alive. Well pitz on them, it's their choice, live with it. When I go visit back in memory I got to the happier times.

I moved to BC with my beloved mate and I have a new job and no one know except my manager who I am, to everyone else  I am the new lady in town.

Ia pray that all will continue to work out for you hon.

Cindy
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Cristasphoto

RSo far in life it has...
And On the Bright side its all has even when I just knew I was screwed LOLAnd I movved from California cause of the High crime AND the high prices.
Illinois is a LOT cheaper and live and let live albeit...
Like I said Ive been omy own ALL my adult life...
With NO CONTACT fromANY of my family
Supposedly they had me as missing Buuut I dunno LOL
And THE ONLY reason why I moved with is because of my nieces whom are 4 and 9 months
And one of their Moms are single LOL
ANd My Nieces are Like my own kids We are THAT COLOOOSE !!!!!
And the fact My family was on my mind EVERY DAY I was "gone"...
Anyhows enough rambling and Well now I am that much wise and have closure...
Thank you too all whom responded...
Trust me its been a HUGE comfort...
And Thanks CindyBC
Vancouver I visited and it was BEAUTIFUL
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