Quote from: Kim on July 31, 2006, 08:21:35 AM
I just researched this passport concern and it's been been put on hold until Jan 1,2008 instead of 2007. The rational is as Steph stated to give time to find a more workable solution. They are still debating it 
Under ideal circumstances, I'd have the surgery before that date. But when you need the ideal to happen, it gets stage fright.
Last week at work, I got to attend an orientation course on the Middle East. One of the sections talked about the current religious/political climate in several countries. The bottom line is that the majority of folks in the different countries DON'T want their societies transformed into restrictive, religious-based theocracies. Saudi Arabia is currently the most strict on that sense, with religious police that have the power to punish you on the spot for any infraction of the rules of Allah. And the fundamentalist militants in the other countries seem to be working towards that model only on steroids.
Ordinary people in Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan, Syria, etc., don't want that, but are too busy just trying to get on with their lives to do much to stop it. And besides, it's always the other guy (or girl) who 'gets it.'
I was struck by the parallels to U.S. society. Of course, we'd NEVER go that far. Or would we?
I'm becoming more activist. It's nunna' their damned business that I broke their gender rules. and keeping my official documents with M(ale) is only a cue to the bullies out there that they can **** with me with impunity.
'Way back when I was in the Marine Corps and in tech school, there was a young member of the permanent party where I was going to school. (For the record, I was in the air wing, a very sane part of the Corps, and we were learning how to work with aviation ordnance at the school in the base weapons magazine area, and he was part of the schoolhouse staff.)
This member, it turned out, was gay. He also had very poor impulse control, and, while drunk one night, er-- 'violated' his roommate while he slept. The incident got around. Fast.
The next morning, the head instructor informed the class about the incident. We were NOT to take any retribution, whatsoever. This was not a person to be despised, but to be pitied because he could not control these urges. I was impressed with the official tolerance that was being displayed...
Then the instructor launched into 5 minutes of f***** jokes.
The message was clear, it was STILL okay to hate the little c.........
Our community needs rules with teeth, not ambiguity that is tacit approval for harassment by so-called public servants.
I'll put a bookmark in my rant with a quotation from Anthony Burgess' book, A Clockwork Orange:
"So, what's it going to be then, eh?"
Karen