Quote from: Nero on October 18, 2008, 07:26:54 PM
especially when you're posing as a female online
I do not pose, I give a female name and that is all - i never really understood why I even did it (it was this practice that tipped me off as trans in the first place). But the avoidance of your privilege is quite a good explanation. Of course now I've said about having this other, other (other, other, other) web name some people may think me creepy - another fun result of said 'privilege.' A woman doing the same would be understood - as indeed they have been (mr currer, george elliot, etc).
Quote from: Nero on October 18, 2008, 07:26:54 PM
that's because before I got to know you, I fell for your femme display (as many are prone to do, especially when you're posing as a female online). now I'm seeing a whole other unflattering and strongly male side that makes up the real you.
egads... a femme side and a male side...how very...... androgynous?
The truth is flitting around the middle, where I always claimed it to be. If you are reading my posts and first saw femme and then saw male...how am i hiding? How am I being something other than what i claim to be? What I have
always claimed to be?
And as for femme display, what femme display? You were harranging me a second ago for having no femme display.
In real life I present as the person I am, in my videos I present as the more detached, logical (ish) part of me, on this site I used to enjoy the friendly goofy sides I like, alas I can't feel relaxed to have fun on here anymore...so you're getting the irritated, angry me, and have in a few threads the last few weeks...But in real life I present as I am and as I feel, I am incapable of maintaining an act, if I were capable of it, I would contradict myself a lot less as an act would be more consistent than i am. If I could maintain an act, I wouldn't have ever needed to come to this site.