Hello, Stephen! Welcome to Susan's

It's always nice to have another SO around.
My wife, Danielle, is also MtF. We're currently in therapy and things have been progressing well. I highly recommend a therapist who will also do couple's sessions. Transition affects *you* as well and communication and honesty are the keys to staying together (just like any relationship.) Couples can and do survive transition

Ask any questions you have. We're here to help!
WR
Edited to add:
Oh, I forgot to plug the SO's forum and chat too! You can come visit us on the main chat room (#chat) or the #SOTalk room (which is pretty quiet most of the time.)