My dear, first, I can see you haven't gone anywhere at all. Next I am not unbelievable. I actually believe and live by the notion that people are important and valuable regardless whatever label we are willing to give them. The only label that matters is "people."
One may be better-off economically, professionally, through agnecy-of-birth, through hard work, through having a congenital condition they didn't effect themselves, and any number of other things. But, in the last analysis the people I have worked with over the years who have been labelled "schizophrenic" or "borderline" are as absolutely as much people and worthy of respect, rights and human kindness and acceptance as are "classic" transsexuals or hetrogenous transgender-people.
What you call for is not to my liking and I imagine never will be. If I am willing to be among those you disdain why would that be unbelievable?
I've also seen white folks march hand-in-hand with black folks through hails of bullets, fire-hosing and rock-throwing. I've lived through people of tremendous heart and integrity being labelled seditious and "->-bleeped-<--lovers" because they saw a need, a commandment, to stand with those who were being discounted.
Is that unbelievable? Unthinkable? If so, then yep, I'm unbelievable. Go blog about it if you wish. Take glee in what you feel is the discomforture of those you dislike and don't see as valid human beings as deserving of the recognition of their humanity as you are of yours.
I hope to Mother that there will be more unbelievable people who write with you. I don't think the exposure could hurt you at all.
The plea you've made thus far I have read as simply, "leave them behind and enter the house of humanity while they remain outside." That is a plea, as I see it, to saving my own skin while watching others lose their's. It's not right, it's not moral it's simply, as I said, something that made a great impression on me when I was a child.
If the chance arises now to oppose something similar, then I shall do so.
Mother's blessings on you.
Added after you really did leave the thread, Cathryn. Quote from: nooneinparticular on October 27, 2008, 04:42:03 PM
Give it up Nic(h)ole........the blog I referred to as being "vetted" is one that's been up for ten months.
O, this may come as a shock to you, but I wasn't talking about
your posts, Cathryn.
Sorry, I've read the entire radicalbitch sequence, when it appears, but don't go back and re-read it. Once is usually more than enough.
Although if you could shorten some of your paragraphs it would make it easier to read. Unless you reach the writing level of Gregory Rabassa in his translations of Gabriel Garcia Marquez's early novels. Then go ahead with the run-on paragraphs, they'll sing.
The study I was speaking of is the one by Prince Henry's Institute and UCLA which I am sure you weren't given an advanced publication of. You read the same press-release the rest of us read. (My blog tomorrow will link that release.)
QuoteThis discussion was centred on civil rights today.......your's too. That's not worth burying your hatchet for?
And that, unbelieveable as it may appear to you, seemed to me to be your suggestion that I save my own skin while others fry.
I don't know how to attempt to get you to understand that it isn't you I stand against, it's the relationship I surmise between your ideas and the "common-good" of people who are all pretty much excluded in many ways by many other groups.
I mean, maybe it's a fine thing to be still a part of what I more and more realize is simply a new kinda of "men's club" modelled after the ones many transitioners can no longer belong to. So we make a new one, include her and her and leave out that, that, him and him.
Personally, I'd rather just go find people to interact with who aren't so much concerned with who is "first among equals." Or whether or not we should accept "that kind."
Therein lies my hugest problem with your brand of HBS theory. It's divisive, sconomically-based and simply seems another way of people trying to find their own justifications for why they are "better-than." And given the ways I actually quite like and respect your abilities, I'm sorry that I cannot read anything else in your agitation.
I truly don't want to believe that is what you are doing because there is so very much ability and promise in you. So much experience of being rejected that I think you could be a remarkable "civil-rights leader" in and of your own experience.
So, label me "disappointed."
Nichole