Genes, Jeans and sexual objectification
http://karynm.blogspot.com/2008/10/genes-jeans-and-sexual-objectification.html10/28/2008
Dee and I met our friend Cynthia for dinner and drinks at the Olive Garden. I'd been jonesin for some good Italian food. After dinner when we were leaving as I approached the doors to leave I noticed two men talking to each other and both stopped to stare at me. As I got outside by the parking lot I noticed that they were still looking in my direction through the doors and talking.
My brain splits into 2 different schools of thought at this point.
1) They are reading me and they are not too happy to see a transsexual in their favorite restaurant.
2) They actually thought I was cute and they were checking me out.
Most people want me to believe it is the latter but my brain trying to keep me safe jumps back and forth. The real issue though is like Annah stated, they were probably checking me out and well, living in the male world I have a good idea of what they may have been thinking. It's a weird feeling to be looking at guys as though they are pigs now but being in that position I see no other possibility.