My brother's trans and it hasn't been terribly long since i've known, but it wasn't exactly last week, either. we live very far apart, by the way. Like, diff countries. SO ANYWAYS. some of my friends at school know, and i think others wonder because i don't use his female name anymore. so either they just get it or they think that i've got a new friend. i'm having problems, though, using the right pronouns (he vs she) and sometimes i just say "sorry i get them mixed up, the names are so alike" which is half true, but it's partly also cuz i was just so used to saying "she". i feel horrible all the time though because i am TRYING to remember, but i can't sometimes. once before on msn i even said "hey chickie" and then cyber-smashed my head into the keyboard.
so yeah this is less of a question or anything than it just is a little rant. i'm sure it'll get easier as time goes on, but i think a big part of why i have problems is that around certain people, my brother is still my sister (like around my parents and other brother) but around my friends and at school it's okay.
