Is it always this hard?

[scarboroughfair]

you know, I always wondered if it was tough all the way....


Seems evident thst it is.....
I have come to realize that most folks that are "straight" or don't follow transgender issues, you know, forget it.
I'm so darned scared to post anythingh anymore''' I thought I was a woman, yet I fell sooooo in love with another woman.......
IO guess that makes m,e a loser.......

[Renate]

I thought I was a woman, yet I fell sooooo in love with another woman.......
I guess that makes me a loser.......

Um, it could just make you a lesbian.

[kaitygrl]

It can be very difficult for many people. There are no easy answers for most and the journey is never easy. Understand though, that love is truly blind and does not care about race, color, gender, sex, etc. If you love a girl, you love a girl. It doesn't mean that you aren't one. Don't be afraid to post anything because you will never learn anything. You should never be afraid to speak your mind and even less afraid to ask questions. By no means, are you a loser. That mentality and self pity will only hurt you in the future no matter who you are. Have more confidence in who you are and what you say. We all have our doubts and insecurities sweetie. Learn to control them. Don't let them control you.

[Janet_Girl]

scarboroughfair,

That is why we are here.  To give and get support, advise and a shoulder to lean on.

Janet

[Mister]

Is what hard and stressful?  Transition?  Mine sucked for about ten non-consecutive days. 

[Jeatyn]

Sexuality has nothing to do with gender

I see myself as a gay male

It's so strange knowing I'm gay, but appearing straight to the outside world. I thought I was a lesbian for the longest time because that at least fit in with that part of the equation.