Heya,
My name is Dee. In actuality, my name is Tanjy Diane but I go by Dee and djustdee on most forums that I visit. The shortened version Dee came from needing to find something my kids could call me in all situations.
I am engaged to the most wonderful woman that I have ever met. We are both bisexual and perfectly compatible in every way. She is the most open and understanding person I have ever met without a doubt. She new about my transgender before we became engaged. Together we have five kids even though I don't get to see my bio-children much due to financial problems(I don't have a car). I am divorced and my ex-wife became a lesbian after we separated even though one of her reasons that we needed to separate was that I was transgender. Her reasoning is that I didn't tell her before hand. We get along for the most part and she won't keep the children from me based on sexuality.
Well, that was the easy part.
I always tended towards more feminine interest and thought I was in heaven when I discovered my mothers lingerie collection. It was never sexual for me. It just felt right to me.
I knew for years that I wasn't like other guys. In fact, there aren't many things about me like other guys at all.
The first time I ever went out dressed was the fourth of July on my sixteenth year. I had managed to cobble together an outfit and changed clothes on the top of a building where no one could see me. Some guy hit on me and scared the crap out of me. Eventually, I learned to appreciate men as sexual and relationship partners.
During the intervening years I have came and went with my transsexual nature. I think like most of us I went through years of buy and trash before I accepted my self. I still have trouble because I spend so much time trying to keep people from being upset that I keep myself in check. Those days are finally coming to a close because I just can't do that any more. I am starting to move towards a more open promotion of who, and what, I am.
Other interesting facts about me.
I am 5'5" tall, weigh about 155 pounds.
I have really small feet. I can wear a women's size 9 without any problem.
My fiance helps me with all areas female.
My oldest(13) bonus(step) daughter keeps borrowing my shoes and she keeps stealing my pants.
Well. I think that about sums up my current situation. I am very nervous about moving forward because I don't want to hurt anybody.
Love and Kisses,
Dee
