A Saner Look at the Bible, revised
http://www.bilerico.com/2008/12/a_saner_look_at_the_bible_revised.phpDecember 24, 2008 10:00 AM
One particular visit, I was about to take a bite out of a scrumptious piece of apricot pie, when she said, "You're gay aren't you." I hadn't talked with her about my late-in-life discovery, but, I guess, somehow she knew.
Stunned, I said, "Yes, I am," I went on to describe a problem I was dealing with. It was becoming harder and harder to lead a double life that was having physical ramifications. I was struggling to lead a 30-hour week because I didn't have the stamina.
We didn't talk anymore about it and, after a while, she returned north and I, south. On Valentines Day I got a card from her that included a note. She expressed her appreciation for my support and went on to say that she felt I needed to leave the church. Then she went on to say that she'll always love me -- even with the knowledge I was gay. You know what they say -- love the sinner, but hate the sin. It hurt me to the core. I started crying, then tried to think about what to say in reply.