Hey
I'm Jamie, otherwise known as AndroJay.
I identify as somewhere on the FtM end of the spectrum, but consider the "Ft" as important as the "M".
I went with the name AndroJay because I'm vaguely androgynous, and vaguely male. Somewhere in the middle
Yeah, that explains better than my attempt with words, midway between the centrepoint and the male end along the androgyne line.
My gender identity is... often in a state of flux, and the best label I can sometimes find is not-female, whereas other times, I've got it downpat where I fit in. Transmasculine works as well, despite me being a femme boi (as I currently label).
It's more confusing than that because although I despise presenting female constantly, I like dressing feminine on occasion, and when I've transitioned to a point at which dysphoria is minimal, I plan to dress in tranditionally feminine clothes occasionally again.
Oh, and I have the most awesome boyfriend, a trans boy called Kane, and I love him
I joined here because I wanted to find somewhere where you don't have to subscribe to a false binary to be part of a trans community
Jay
Edited to add:
I wasn't sure I'd explained myself well enough there. For day to day purposes, I'll identify as male, I'll self-describe as FtM, when in places that I can't explain genderqueerity, and I plan to transition, going on testosterone and having my chest restructured that I can pass as male. I get all the dysphoria associated with the female body, and to all intents and purposes seem... ftm. I plan to live life as male, a male who wears androgynous clothes generally, and feminine ones on occasion, it's that... my gender identity is FAR closer to male than female, and where I can, I'll challenge the false binary, where I can't, I'll live as male.
