as someone who thought of being a woman every day, and "fantasized" about it all day for 40 years before the 16 ton weight landed on my head 2 yrs ago.....i can say that having a brain that "thinks I'm a girl" has really messed me up.....it also causes alot of doubt when i read about the kids that tell their parents "im a girl" when they are 6 yrs old....i always just wished i was, and wondered why i got screwed....i never connected the dots..
it totally messed up my self worth...made me fell worthless, in fact i really felt like "nothing" because the real me just didnt exist. i thought the crossdressing was my thing , and i got good at it...
it messed up my family life because i denied my reality for so long and started a wonderful family...but i have high hopes that this is fixable and my kids have been great so far...i hope they dont get messed up over this though and i worry about this all the time
i'm 6'2 - not passable ugh....but honestly with enough makeup and my best wig i can get by...but thats not real life...i have some money and i want to make a living...its totally unfair because i feel like i'm a woman now, and i feel like HRT has done wonders for my attitude and my figure and i hope my body continues to gradually change......but its not gonna change my face....and its huge honking nose....so its not fair, its not right but i want to be treated like a woman ....thats so important to me that i'm gonna go thru all that pain and $$ to do ffs surgery....i hope i'm ok with the outcome and most importantly i hope it allows me to treated like myself....but its always on my mind how risky this surgery is and how unknown the outcome of it will be...i dont feel like i have a choice , cuz i know with my face, i'm gonna be a guy dressed as a woman wherever i go, no matter how i feel on the inside
totally unfair...i'm blessed to have saved up for it and i'm gonna get my ffs......yes i want to look at myself and be happy, but frankly, i'm already pretty happy...i kinda just pretend i dont have a face....hehe///
its about how i want to be treated...so unfair ..but its reality...