Quote from: lisagurl on January 01, 2009, 02:35:33 PM
Quoteyour reality
Not my reality I am dead remember just as everyone else. Remember reality is there regardless of humans. You seem to have a hard time understanding the concept of reality outside your own head or mine.
Ah a question of reality, something that is unique upon the beholder. If that were not true than how could so many different life philosophies exist?
But a more prudent argument is about the extent of the reality that affects the depressed person. The 'weight of the world' feeling is that of your reality being crushed down to just you. It is why individuals can commit suicide, after all we have a very, very strong will to live. All humans do and it takes some hardcore rewiring to change that. Religion is one way, it accounts for suicide bombers. Pain is another. For why else is torture employed to extract information? You are in so much pain that even if it hurts those around you, even your loved ones, you give the torturer what they want just to stop the pain. In a way that is what depression to the point of suicide is, torture to keep living and you want the pain to stop.
People can be trained to resist torture, this is true. But usually the training involves resisting torture inflicted on you to train you to resist it. Though therapy helps, there is no real way to resist the allure of suicide. It is alluring though, just as giving up to torture is alluring.
You can help bear the pain, but someone can never take on all of someone's pain. So ultimately it is the individuals not the people around them that decide if they will commit suicide. It is a choice, maybe misinformed but a choice. Though I would love to know where someone can make a completely informed decision, as there is always a chaotic element to any decision.
To be clear, I don't think suicide is the answer to any life problem. I think is
an answer, but I don't think it is
the answer. Just like anything else, there are countless ways to handle the situation, and thus my personal belief is that it is the individual's right to choose their course.