Straight ladies/Gay guys: What do you want in a man {other than money}?

[Nero]

What do you want in a man?

[Sophie90]

Sense of humour, empathy, stuff in common with me, trustworthyness, intelligence.
Though intelligence isn't strictly neccessary. I just find it helps.

I don't look for any particular appearance, once I'm attracted to someone due to the above, their appearance grows on me.

[tinkerbell]

I personally do not care about money.  I think that any person who has that on his/her "desirable traits checklist" should consider getting a job instead of trying to find someone to leech off of.  I do, however, like and fall in love with guys who are genuine, hard-working, good looking, caring, ambitious, honest, smart, funny, clean, independent, loving, passionate; guys who take me to the stars/heaven and treat me like a princess!



As far as types are concerned:

**snip**

My type? *giggles* I like guys with well-toned bodies, athletic.  I am very much attracted to guys from Mediterranean heritage, Spanish, Italian, Greek, etc.  I prefer guys with black or dark-brown  hair and whose skin is darker than mine.   If I had to choose among a white, an Asian, an African-American and a Latin guy, I would choose the Latin guy in a milli second; they are just very sexy and extremely passionate.....

**snip**

 



tink

[Laura Eva B]

Maybe I'm base but a guy I go for ...

- must look good
- be slim / fit
- smell clean and nice in places where it matters !
- have hair
- find me attractive / love me
- bit younger than me
- be uninhibited
- professional
- intelligent / challenging conversationalist
- socialist / internationalist / unbigoted / left leaning
- outgoing
- generous

... may as well dream ... ...

laura x

[Jamie-o]

I like a guy who:

• Appreciates my sense of humor
• Is kind and thoughtful.
• Is intelligent and witty.
• Has a nice smile
• Is honest but tactful.
• Smells nice. (Or at least, doesn't stink.)
• Is reliable and trustworthy

Edit: Adds "Nonsmoker" to the top of the list. - But then, I guess that goes along with "doesn't stink".


And it helps if he's really cute. 

[cindybc]

If I were looking for a man it would be someone who could make me feel like a woman, loved, secure in his arms, good sense of humour, empathy but not empathic, like minds in thoughts and feelings, trustworthy, intelligent, yes definitely intelligent, like in smarts, knows things. We can just ask them to take us for a tour of the universe in our interdimensional think drive star ship Tink.

Cindy

[Janet_Girl]

- Good looking or at least cute
- prefer fit, but if he is nice then that doesn't matter.
- Nice butt
- Must have good hygiene
- Honest, faithfully and trustworthy
- intelligent, but not a know it all
- Non drinker, or at least just socially
- funny
- treats me like I am all woman, His.
- non possessive.
- Must love to cuddle and kiss in public.

[sd]

How about the bi's?

Make me feel like a woman, not be ridiculously overweight, and keep my mind engaged.
Simple 

Anything else is pretty negotiable.


Money... not really a big deal. If he has it great, if not, I would certainly not hold it against him.

[Rachael]

Other than money?

A pulse?
hehe nah, I want a strong man, who is sensative, but not afraid to be asertive, and dominant. Im a quite vivacious girl in most of life, but in the bedroom and romance wise, i want to feel protected, dominated, and made to feel like a lady...

Not including Hot bod, chocolate covered penis, and white wine sperm.

[tinkerbell]

ROFL.. Rachael, you are just too funny! OMG 



tink

P.S.  But indeed, a pulse always helps. *giggle*

[yabby]

and white wine sperm.

any available that tastes like white chocolate. if you know such a man let me know haha 

[Laura Eva B]

and white wine sperm.

any available that tastes like white chocolate. if you know such a man let me know haha 

I'd settle for it just tasting like a half decent chardonnay ...  ...

Laura x

[Janet_Girl]

and white wine sperm.

any available that tastes like white chocolate. if you know such a man let me know haha 

I'd settle for it just tasting like a half decent chardonnay ...  ...

Laura x

Or at least a decent mocha, with plenty of foam. 

[Rachael]

If its frothy you may be doing it wrong.... VERY wrong.

[Janet_Girl]

If its frothy you may be doing it wrong.... VERY wrong.

Maybe I should have said heavy on the creme.  And it has been a looooooooooooong time, but it is like riding a bike.   

[cindybc]

Your not supposed to mix it with alkazeltser. You take the alkazeltser after you get the upset stomach, not before. Cheeeeeeez! No wonder it gets all frothy.

Cindy

[Rachael]

If its frothy you may be doing it wrong.... VERY wrong.

Maybe I should have said heavy on the creme.  And it has been a looooooooooooong time, but it is like riding a bike.   

and falling off hurts just as much

[Jeatyn]

Someone who's a Gaming, nerdy, creative type who can provide a decent challenge and sometimes beat me at video games 

Liking anime and comic books would be nice

Bonus if he's good on guitar

Looks wise, I like the emo look, piercings, funky hair, skinny jeans

[Yvonne]

Exotic, very honest, talkative, kind and decent looking, not overweight, very secure and not critical. He's got to be 6 feet or taller, muscular but not body builder muscular just muscular & a good lover. Generous and capable of providing. Practical but adventuresome also.

[SarahFaceDoom]

I want to date Bruce Wayne.  That's my ideal man.