Need a lil advice

[Hazard "AJ"]

I been a low bast couple of days. With me not being abole to get a job dont make me fill any better Im trying to take my life step by step.. I now whats going on with my fillings. But i have had confused filling about what sex i like as in bf gf.. I love girls and i would love to be with one. I Love looking at women... But my mum seems to think diffrent as iv never had sex with either man or women. she thinks i cant deside what sex i like. altho i agree i also diss agree. Like i said i love women. and when i look at a women i fill right. Men NOTHING. I fill nothing for men. and i cant not even think of being with a man. Errr it just dont mix with me... I dont like it. But my mum fills as if that cuz of what somethings happend with me when i was young. I havent even been to my GP cuz of this. But i must soon. cuz right now in my life i cant stand myself the way it is. and sometimes when i get down or low. i tend to cut myself and i just dont want to go as fare as all the way. sometimes when i get so upset and down i want to die.. my sister is a star she there for me when i need it. anyways i cant imagen me being with a man cuz in not atracted to men. I love women.  i dont fill i can have sex with anyone that im not atracted to.. I look at a girl and think Man shes cute, sexy ect. When i see men. I dont think anythink i have no fillings what so ever.. Somtimes i look at a man and think god i wish i looked like u. But nothing sexual... I cant seem to find anyone. Im on socul networking sites and no one talks to me NO ONE. i have no friends and dont go out anywere. so i fill like im never going to find out if i dont U now experment a lil... Im in the same place i was 5 years ago and i just want to live my life and start a new one...

[icontact]

-shrugs- Date who feels right, it really doesn't matter. But if you're going to experiment, make sure the other person knows it's just experimentation otherwise you're using them and it's really not fair to them if it turns out badly.

[Hazard "AJ"]

OHH i now that.. NO NO NO i wouldnt do that to someone.. I would rather a relationship.. But as im 21 and had no one.. I kind of fill like iv missed out on alot of things i wouldnt say im ugly.. And alot of the time i Pass. but im a lil shy. and i really done meet new people. I dunno... I just fill very lonley and would like a relationship.. But cant seem to find anythink. I cant find friends let alone a girlfriend

[missmarleen]

I am a girlfriend of an FTM and I think that you should date whomever you wish to date..there are many supporting women out in the world that will love you for you who are and who you are ment to be with...your mother is not your boss you date who you want to date and when the time comes your mother will come to terms with it..if not..in the end you have to make yourself happy before anyone else..because you are the one that has to deal with yourself

[Tmale]

I agree with MissMarleen. Date who feels  right for you. Get out and do what makes you feel comfortable and what makes you happy. Life is short. Take it step by step as you say but don't compromise who you are. You haven't missed out on anything yet because you are already aware of your true self. Just keep moving forward. Be who you are meant to be.

[icontact]

Well if you meet someone you're interested in, make sure they know you're interested. Make the move, ask them out. You're going nowhere in the relationship business if you can't find the balls to ask a girl out.

[tekla]

Sex is a dance of seduction, predator and prey - and if you're the dude, you are pretty much expected to be the more outgoing and more aggressive.  They women gets to say 'yes' or 'no' but you have to ask first.

[Hazard "AJ"]

Thanks. another Q do u think i should go onto a dating site.. Were im from no one talks to me.. and i dont get along with alot of people around here. and i have no friends to go out a meet people. if i did im sure i would have had relationships by now.. The one thing with dating sites is i have no idea what to put... Male female les straight.. I dunno.. I use myspace. but no one seems to talk to me on that and most of the people i do talk to are from the US well all the chatrooms have US people not saying thats bad but i dont belive in long distence relationships

[Jay]

Who says you have to be attracted to men and have a boyfriend?? I personally have never slept with a man because I dont like them, friends they are find but I believe you like who you like for a reason. I dont think you need to go to the doctor about it to be honest. There are things which you can change mate but you need to think of what they are. Like you I am on social networking sites and no one talks to me ever! But I just get on with it!

[Hazard "AJ"]

I wasnt talking abou5t going to the docs about finding someone i was talking about going to the docs about how i fill about myself

[Jay]

I wasnt talking abou5t going to the docs about finding someone i was talking about going to the docs about how i fill about myself

My bad.

[Hazard "AJ"]

Lol its cool im crap at explaing things..

[Jay]

Lol its cool im crap at explaing things..

all I can think is if you want help you need to go and get it dude.

[Hazard "AJ"]

Lol its cool im crap at explaing things..

all I can think is if you want help you need to go and get it dude.

Yeh thats true its just were to go what to do..

[Jay]

Lol its cool im crap at explaing things..

all I can think is if you want help you need to go and get it dude.

Yeh thats true its just were to go what to do..

Well after Thursday then hopefully you will feel alot better, like a weight has been lifted.

[Hazard "AJ"]

Lol its cool im crap at explaing things..

all I can think is if you want help you need to go and get it dude.

Yeh thats true its just were to go what to do..

Well after Thursday then hopefully you will feel alot better, like a weight has been lifted.

Yeh hopefully.if felt great when i told my mum and got that out of the way.