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Started by Eamber, January 27, 2009, 09:07:37 PM

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Nigella

I was once a hairy gorilla, lol. You'll be great.


Stardust
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Zelane

There is something you might want to look in the future. A TCR for your adams apple.
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Eamber

Quote from: Zelane on January 28, 2009, 01:20:01 PM
There is something you might want to look in the future. A TCR for your adams apple.

Oh yeah, I kind of know I need to do that. My adams apple is not that gigantic, but it sort of comes out of nowehere, because the rest of my throat is thinish, so it catches peoples attentions.

It's pretty inexpensive, as far as I know... Though I have no idea how you go about getting cosmetic surgery.

Edit: Oh, again, thanks for the comments... But I still really don't see it.  ???
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iminadaze

well I can see it, girl, girl, girl, that is what I see.
I agree with others here that a little makeup can
do wonders and if you're not seeing what we are seeing
maybe if you put some on you will notice.

anyway I think you look great, here is a site that Amanda recommends

it has helped me with my makeup woes.

makeuptalk.com


*Hugs* Nicole
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Ms Bev

You're worried for nothing.  You'll get the fuzz lasered off, and be wonderful.  Stop worrying


Bev
1.) If you're skating on thin ice, you might as well dance. 
Bev
2.) The more I talk to my married friends, the more I
     appreciate  having a wife.
Marcy
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Ms.Behavin

One thing, We each have a self image we carry inside us.  It took me a long time to see the girl I was on the outside.  My friends saw her first and it took a photo my best friend took for me to finally see the girl.  We all see the flaws. Lucky that girls like boys come in all shapes and sizes.

So give yourself some time.  But gee I wish I looked so good before HRT.

Beni
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lizard

yeah dont worry.  You actually look strangely a lot like my wifes sister.
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Eamber

Alright, I took the pictures down out of general paranoia. But thanks for replying, it means a lot to me.
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Naturally Blonde

Quote from: stardust on January 28, 2009, 01:15:12 PM
I was once a hairy gorilla, lol. You'll be great.


Stardust

In another thread Stardust you said you were a Genetic Female?
Living in the real world, not a fantasy
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Jessie_Heart

Quote from: Naturally Blonde on January 29, 2009, 09:34:39 PM
Quote from: stardust on January 28, 2009, 01:15:12 PM
I was once a hairy gorilla, lol. You'll be great.


Stardust


In another thread Stardust you said you were a Genetic Female?

In the other thread she was saying she is now completely female that since she has had surgery she is no longer trans. I can see where it was confussing I just figured I would try to help straighten out the confussion.
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Nigella

Quote from: Jessie_Heart on January 29, 2009, 09:43:51 PM
Quote from: Naturally Blonde on January 29, 2009, 09:34:39 PM
Quote from: stardust on January 28, 2009, 01:15:12 PM
I was once a hairy gorilla, lol. You'll be great.


Stardust


In another thread Stardust you said you were a Genetic Female?

In the other thread she was saying she is now completely female that since she has had surgery she is no longer trans. I can see where it was confussing I just figured I would try to help straighten out the confussion.

Cool, yea Jessie you are right, I was born with a male body defect mtf, lol. I never considered myself anything but female even though I had a male body. In another post from naturally blonde I have been slated for being a gg here on a trans forum and being negative against trans people. OMG I am one/was. Sorry to confuse you but like naturally blonde says she thought from my pic I was transexual, I'm now really gutted, lol. Still a long way to go then, lol. Any way just thought I'd set the picture straight.

I was only trying to make the point of what HRT can do but perhaps I was being a bit obtuse.

luv

Stardust
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Naturally Blonde

Quote from: stardust on January 30, 2009, 03:30:10 AM

I was only trying to make the point of what HRT can do but perhaps I was being a bit obtuse.

luv

Stardust
I'm glad the confusion has been cleared up. It was the 100% female bit in your post that confused me.

Any way what do you mean when you say 'the point of what can HRT do?

I know what HRT doesn't do but I'm interested in your comments as to what you think it does do?
Living in the real world, not a fantasy
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Nigella

being hairy of course, doh, lol and are we not 100% female?

Stardust
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Naturally Blonde

Quote from: stardust on January 30, 2009, 08:39:54 AM
being hairy of course, doh, lol and are we not 100% female?

Stardust

Unfortunitely not, we have a smaller pelvis, and usually have bigger shoulders and are XY male but we can try and get closer to our goal with various surgeries. In our brain we are female but physically it's not so easy for many of us to match our target gender..
Living in the real world, not a fantasy
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Jessie_Heart

Quote from: Naturally Blonde on January 30, 2009, 05:14:27 PM
Quote from: stardust on January 30, 2009, 08:39:54 AM
being hairy of course, doh, lol and are we not 100% female?

Stardust

Unfortunitely not, we have a smaller pelvis, and usually have bigger shoulders and are XY male but we can try and get closer to our goal with various surgeries. In our brain we are female but physically it's not so easy for many of us to match our target gender..

my personal beliefs differ from this. I do see your point but given the many varied genetic anomalies in the spectrum of what is gender and keeping in mind that what we consider natural women come in all shapes and sizes I think it is up to each of us to decied what it means to be who we are. if you have decieded that even after all your trails of transisition you are male that is definately your right to decied and if you decied that you are female even before any transisition has started than that is your right and that is who you are!

I believe that everyone on this site no matter thier physical apperance is 100% whatever gender they feel they are and that the HRT and surgeries are no different than getting a haircut or buying new clothes in that they are things done to make us feel better about ourselves and to allow us to be more comfortable with who we are. unfortuenately it is more tramatic than something as simple as getting a haircut because other people make it that way for us. as I said at the start of this post this is just my belief.
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Eamber

I hope you don't mind me posting one more picture. I was wondering if I could get some opinions on this?

I made an effort this time, yknow, girl clothes, shaved just before.

Edit: I changed the picture to this one: http://i381.photobucket.com/albums/oo253/lastembers/IMG00073.jpg?t=1233432013 to avoid wookstock jokes.
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Janet_Girl

Yo Dude, peace out.  Wasn't Woodstock the livin end

You remind me of the 60s.  But very cute, Girl.  And I still think you are a bios sent in to spy.  8)  ;)

Janet

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