I am Lisa, post-op Now almost 6 years from when I was 18. Having a surgeon Dad and Nurse Mom, in California, made all the advantages for me as I was diagnosed TG by age 5. I had a girlhood and more after 14 when I went to a private school to be feminine full time.
BUT, to the subject. I had 'genital correction surgery' in spring break, still in High School. Labiaplasty 3 months later.
I CLEARLY remember my first vaginal sex experience and it hurt; but got better. Now, it is the only way I know to make love - really! I love it and orgasm both ways pretty easily. Practice, practice, dialation, masturbation, read Monica Stewart's "MtF orgasms". It is easier for us newer 'second type women', better surgery, etc.
Mainly, enjoy being a woman. Sex is only one part of a female life.
Lovingly,
Lisa