well it was part of the conversation, we had been talking about gender as part of my research for my MA dissertation/Novel. They asked me to explain whether men understood much of non-verbal/tonal communication, because they didn't seem to. I said it would appear so, so they said that I seemed to be pretty good at it and I told them that was because I was an androgyne and saw myself as not quite male or female. There were smiles and another pot of tea was made.