Introductions

[MrMann]

So, I am new to the SPTF and wanted to introduce myself.  I currently reside in a small Northwest Pacific town that has been surprising accepting of my decision to transition.  Although I have always been "male-minded", the decision to transition is bearly a year old.  Having wanted to do so all of my life, and now with the complete support of the woman I will marry in September, I am in the process of finding the doctors who will enable to process and write the letters when it is time to actually perform the surgery.

[Tina2]

Hi MrMann, welcome to Susan's, you will find this is a great place, I hope everything works out in your quest, aloha.

Tina

[MrMann]

Thank you.  How does one acquire the ability to post their photo?  And, how long will I be classified as a "visitor"?

[Susan]

Thank you.  How does one acquire the ability to post their photo?  And, how long will I be classified as a "visitor"?

There are several threads at the top of the announcements forum that you should take a few minutes to read.

[Janet_Girl]

Hi Mr Mann,   

Welcome to our little family. Over 1660 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion. Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers.  Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now.  And it is always nice to have another brother.   

The Pacific Northwest is very progressive towards the Trans community.  I should know, I live in Portland. And Congrats on the upcoming wedding and support.

Janet

[myles]

Greetings- There are great links about where you can find therapists and so forth on the main page or you can ask here and people can tell you  if they know anyone there. Everyone here is very supportive and will help if they can.
Great that you are in an acceptable town. Welcome!
Myles

[tinkerbell]

Hello there and welcome to Susan's! 

Thanks so much for introducing yourself.  Please take a few moments to get familiar with all the boards of the site, review the site rules before posting, and take advantage of our many resources such as the wiki, chat, and the links listed at the main page.  We look forward to your future posts and participation.  Enjoy your stay! 

tink

[Lacey Lynne]

You are warmly accepted here!  Hugs!

[Jay]

Welcome to Susans!

[Wendy C]

Hi, warmest welcome to Susans. Hugs

Wendy

[MrMann]

Thank you all very much.  My pastor insisted that I connect, and I am very glad that I choose this forum. 

Regarding finding a therapist...  there are many in the Pacific Northwest.  My special challenge has been the fact that I don't reside in the mainstream counties. Kitsap County is heavy NAVY, so locating a therapist that isn't officed 2-3 hours away has been a large part of the search.  I did locate a therapist in Seattle, but that is an easy 2 hour commute one way. 

The other part of the challenge has been finding a prescribing physician. 

In Kitsap County, the general response is, "I don't know what to do for you.  I don't have the experience." 

Not discouraged, though... simply venting.  Thankfully, I live in WA and not some remote part of a state that has greater resistance.  I could live 5-6 hours away from the nearest professional!

Thank you, again, for your warm welcome.

[Cindy]

Hi MrMan
Welcome and lots of love to a new brother. Sounds like you are dealing with life well.

Cindy James

[MrMann]

Thank you Cindy.  Actually, my therapist is quite surprised how uncomplicated this process is for me. 

I think, in part, because I "know that I know that I know."  There is nothing left to ponder.  Its is simply a matter of do.  I guess I think of it more like having my broken nose set than a struggle of consciousness.  (Does that make any sense?)  This transition isn't a matter of "choice" for me.  It is the inevitable consequences of the man God created me to be.

Another part is the overwhelming support of my finance and my friends and associates.  When I announced my transition, everyone just simply accepted it.  There hasn't been any negative backlash, no rejection.  It just simply is. 

I truly believe that I am the type of person who requires confirmation that I am doing the right thing, and God has produced that fully in the matter of my transition.

"I know that plans I have for you, thus says the Lord; Plans for prosperity and welfare, and not for harm, for a hope and a future."  (Jer 29:11)

[Wendy C]

Thank you Cindy.  Actually, my therapist is quite surprised how uncomplicated this process is for me. 

I think, in part, because I "know that I know that I know."  There is nothing left to ponder.  Its is simply a matter of do.  I guess I think of it more like having my broken nose set than a struggle of consciousness.  (Does that make any sense?)  This transition isn't a matter of "choice" for me.  It is the inevitable consequences of the man God created me to be.

Another part is the overwhelming support of my finance and my friends and associates.  When I announced my transition, everyone just simply accepted it.  There hasn't been any negative backlash, no rejection.  It just simply is. 

I truly believe that I am the type of person who requires confirmation that I am doing the right thing, and God has produced that fully in the matter of my transition.

"I know that plans I have for you, thus says the Lord; Plans for prosperity and welfare, and not for harm, for a hope and a future."  (Jer 29:11)

Hi Mr, I read your last post and was stuck by several things you said, the part about choice and it made pefect sense with the exception of my M2F transition in which path I am following. I really am glad that Susans has so many F2M on her site. For myself I have found so many answers from the guys and while I don't envy your struggle anymore than I relish mine, you all have enlightened and made me a better person.

And your last paragraph fits me like a T, I spent my whole life pondering that dilema and finally before my transition I had a very long talk with my God and I very much believe He gave me His blessing in this. Im not sure I could have proceeded without the confirmation. Thanks Hon and Welcome again. Hugs

Wendy

[nicole_loves_chris]

Hi MrMann!

Welcome to the family...

[Natalie3174]

Welcome to Susans. Enjoy your stay!

[JakeDenver]

Welcome to susans.
Well coming to such a decision I know is a very hard one because I know I only made the very same deiciosion only but a few months ago. Just keep on stepping forward. You have people here that will support you and give you any help you need.

[ruucafekko]

welcome