sex thankyou... not gender.
And people do not have to overreact so... theres no law saying its wrong, or gay, or evil, or the reasons they fathom.... And sometimes its just not plausabale, some of us do not broadcast our history, or feel we should have to. Love at first sight happens. And sometimes one waits till one is more intimate with a love to tell them. Granted, it has to happen at some point. But thats incidental now.