He broke up with me

[emoboi]

well that basically says it all
i feel so lonely i dont know what to do i just want to give up noone wants to be with me
i know i told him about my problems and i knew i should probably back off talking about that with him but i guess its too late for that

[Nicky]

Being broken up with really hurts.

Did they give you a reason?

[emoboi]

that we are not working out, we could be good friends but not more than that 

[imaz]

If he can't accept you for who you are he's not worthy of you. There are many lovely people out there, you're a nice person and good looking judging by your avatar, you won't be alone long.

Lots of love and a (((BiG HUG)))

[emoboi]

lol i so wish that was me.....but its not, im ugly

[imaz]

lol i so wish that was me.....but its not, im ugly

Don't believe that for one minute, people are ugly only in their minds.

I spent years thinking I was ugly, I was wrong and it ->-bleeped-<-ed up years of my life. Don't go down that road my friend.

[Nicky]

Even if you were ugly, which you are not, take a look around and you will start to wonder how anybody ends up breeding. Attraction is like magic.

It was good that they were honest about it. It was not working out for them and they let you know.

You are hurting and you have every right to be hurting. Take it easy and look after yourself ok?

[Alyx.]

Well...

People say I'm really cute, but most the time, I don't believe them, because I think I'm ugly.

So, maybe it is all in the mind.

HEY! DON'T COMPLAIN MISTER! I haven't had a single boyfriend OR girlfriend yet! ;_;

[emoboi]

*growls at heartwood* 

[Osiris]

Sorry to hear that it didn't work out. But maybe you can use this to your advantage. Right now might not be the best time to be in a relationship especially if you have a lot of issues to work through.

"If you can't love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love anybody else?" Words of wisdom from one of my favorite people, RuPaul.

I hope you can turn this situation around into something positive.

[Lutin]

Sorry to hear that, beautiful. I've never been broken up with (because I've never had anyone to break up with me ), but I can imagine that it would hurt a lot. As imaz said, if he can't accept you as you are, he's not worthy of you (while admittedly that may not help the immediate pain, it may help later ). Hope you feel better about it very soon. And don't give up, hang in there, mate. It know it's a horrible cliché, but it'll be worth it in the end.

*HUGS*

William xox

[tekla]

Hey you're playing the game in real life as opposed to in your dreams only which is a good thing.  Sure it hurts, love sucks a lot.  But you'll live.  There are lots of other people out there.  No one gets lucky right out of the gate.

[vanna]

Hey you're playing the game in real life as opposed to in your dreams only which is a good thing.  Sure it hurts, love sucks a lot.  But you'll live.  There are lots of other people out there.  No one gets lucky right out of the gate.

Life goes on hunny and i agree with Tekla and the others, no one gets it right first time.

Your young and attractive and although it always sounds patronising there really are more fishes out there.

[Mr. Fox]

Ah!  *Hugs*  Okay, internet hugs are not much of a consolation, but hopefully a little bit.

[Jay]

Being broke up with does make you feel bad. Mate but you will get over it. If he wants to stay friends but you want more isn't it for the best that you cut communication with him? Thats the way I deal with it.

Jay

[emoboi]

i dont know 

[Alyx.]

*growls at heartwood* 

Hmph.

Well, sorry for your loss.

[pheonix]

well that basically says it all
i feel so lonely i dont know what to do i just want to give up noone wants to be with me
i know i told him about my problems and i knew i should probably back off talking about that with him but i guess its too late for that

Sorry he broke up with you.... I know you feel bad now, but it won't always hurt like that.

Something I've learned in life, if one person found you interesting enough to date, other people will too. 

Give yourself time and space to heal.  Do something simple and nice for yourself - something that relaxes you.  We each have our own activities that soothe us.  For me its baths, sculpting, dancing, or watching a favorite movie.  Do something for yourself.  It can help ease the pain.