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Started by krptcmschfmkr128, March 19, 2009, 06:02:14 PM

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krptcmschfmkr128

Ok, so in trying to search and find therapists to help out my SO, I stumbled across this website

http://www.gendertherapist.com/

I emailed the contact asking if their recommendations were generally accepted, and this was the email I got in response

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Dear Ashley



Welcome and thank you for your interest in my 'online' gender related service I would be pleased to assist you with your gender related issues and write letter of recommendation for both hromones and surgery, all of my letters are accepted worldwide.  I am a registered professional member of the Ameican Counsseign Assciation at Virginia US .  I am now enclosing details of the service I offer, if after reading the following information you feel you would wish to arrange sessions or have any questions please contact me by email, online or call  00 63 2 889 3401



I provide a legitimate and genuine well established online service which would be pleased to assist you with your gender related issues and letters for hormones and sex change surgery as assessed.  All letters are readily accepted in the USA and other countries worldwide.  I also provide support, counseling  of gender identity issues, readiness for hormones and surgery for both Tran's men and women.



Online gender counseling can be accessed from home, the office or even a local library. This convenience and confidentiality provides a solution for many persons suffering gender related conditions and issues who may be concerned about the stigma which can be associated with visiting a therapist/counselor. The online counseling takes approximately three months to complete the requirements of each letter of recommendation.  Gender counseling, therefore, provides a long lasting and clinically proven improvement for transgender clients all with close to zero computer skills.



ONLINE SESSIONS

For Transgender related issues such as cross dressing behavior, I suggest four pre-booked sessions which are then later reviewed. For Transsexual clients requiring assessment leading to a letter of recommendation for Hormones (HRT) this is normally carried out within 12 sessions. The assessment period for SRS can be for most, no more than a further three months (12 sessions); these sessions are, if appropriate followed by the letter for surgery.  Clients normally undergo one session per week over the assessment period, each session is of one (1) hour duration.



LETTERS OF RECOMMENDATION - for Criteria go to - http://www.gendertherapist.com/criteria.html - I am registered in both the UK and USA as a professional counselor and gender specialist, my letters of recommendation are accepted worldwide. To verify credentials go to http://www.counselling.ltd.uk/member/6394.html or www.sexchange.us/about.html.  I am also a professional member of the American Counseling Association (ACA) USA and an equivalent counseling association (CCC) U.K.  The recommendation letters after completion of assessment and required sessions are sent by email, normal mail or courier. The letter then accompanies you to your pre-arranged appointment with a local hormone doctor (endocrinologist) or your SRS surgeon.



STANDARD OF CARE GUIDELINES

Although endeavoring to adhere to suggestions outlined in the Harry Benjamin Standards of Care guidelines – Counseling sessions are flexible to individual needs and circumstances.



PROFESSIONAL FEES

My online Professional fees are $35 US per single session, due to this service requiring multi sessions (weekly sessions) the service is discounted, you can purchase sessions at a reduced fee  of $25 US (in blocks of four (4) sessions at a discounted rate of $100 US  (equal to $25 US per session)



  Note: there is a Western Union (WU) transfer fee. The above discount significantly reduces session costs so provides for the added transfer charge.



Please note: On issuance an administration fee of $100 US is normally charged for each letter of recommendation. Session fees are normally paid in advance.



WESTERN UNION TRANSFER

Details for sending professional fee by Western Union transfers are as follows: the payment can be made either online through http://www:westernunion.com or by using a local WU agent (recommended) to locate such an agent - carry out a search on the 'Western Union' website using your zip code. Agents are normally located in banks, exchange centers and large and local Stores.



(Please ask for payout in US Dollar)

Graham L Peveller (Do not forget the middle name initial 'L') 
Cityland Square
Makati City.
Manila.
Philippines.



After sending WU, please email etherapy@gmail.com with the following information:

1. WU Control Number (10 digit number)

2. Full name of sender

3. Amount sent

4. Where from: City/State



TIME DIFFERENCE (WORLD TIME ZONES)

Note:  we are currently 12 hours ahead of EST sessions may be arranged between 7 a.m. – 8p.m. (my time).



ARRANGING APPOINTMENTS

To book appointments online directly through the chat box on my website simply go to http://www.gendertherapist.com on the opening page close to the top are chat boxes, when using the chat box (PLEASE BE PATIENT)  If you later are unable to keep your appointment, kindly give 24 hours notice. Otherwise, a charge may be made for time reserved.



PERSONAL INFORMATION FORM

Attached is a standard 'Confidential' and Personal information 'BIO' form, please complete and email it back to me. Preferably before our initial session as the completed form not only gives me some basics about you, but it also enables me to decide how best to assist you.



CONFIDENTIALITY

Counseling sessions are carried out in strict confidence and cover all aspects of gender dysphoria and related issues together with advice, guidance, support and information. As with any other Counseling/Therapy we as therapists are duly bound by a strictly enforced and adhered to 'Professional code of ethics'.



Finally, I thank you for your valuable enquiry and hope that the above is what you are seeking. I look forward to hearing from you and hopefully working together soon. To chat direct please use this link:   http://messenger.providesupport.com/messenger/gender.html



Dr. Graham L Peveller
Gender Specialist
http://www.gendertherapist.com
http://messenger.providesupport.com/messenger/gender.html  (direct link to chat box)


As Landon's often strapped for cash, this could be quite the affordable option, but how do I tell if it's legit? It all LOOKS legit, and he offers ways to check his credentials, but is there any other way to tell as well?

Is there anyone who's used this with good results? And obviously, if legit, Landon would have to make sure his doctor would accept this before anything.


Thanks ahead of time!
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Lachlann

Check with the doctor to see if this will be accepted by him, first.
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krptcmschfmkr128

:P I know. I said that already.
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Arch

Ditto what Monty said, but I have to say that I'm not sanguine about this whole situation. The text that you showed us has enough errors to choke a horse. The person's credentials might be legit, and English might not be his or her first language; but I hope your (hypothetical) referral letters wouldn't be as badly written. It looks bad and calls the person's fitness into question.
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Nero

That's my therapist! he's more than legit, he's awesome!
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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krptcmschfmkr128

Really Nero? Are his recommendation letters more... compact than his email? Haha. I'm wondering if the amount of typos came from the fact he responded to my initial email within about 10 minutes.... I have to say! Quick guy. Also, Nero, you're on Ontario as well, aren't you(forgive me if I'm wrong)? If so, have you had issues with his letters of recommendation?
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Nero

come on people! have you never had typos? it's early in the morning for him.
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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krptcmschfmkr128

Haha, hey, I was attributing it to too fast-typing :P
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Osiris

Nero I don't think anyone's totally dissing the guy because of the typos. However, he's trying to run a professional site, and his profession works a lot with legal documentation. It kinda detracts from his image when the first sentence in the text on his site reads "Mayor life changes..."  :-\

But it's great that you went to him and can attest to his abilities. :)

Thanks Nero!
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vanna

ahhh i remember you saying Nero about this guy when you were first looking.

i look him up on the british therapist list and he does seem legit and if he can help you sort out the feelings and guide you where you need to go then surely is what its all really about online or not.
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Arch

Uh, I was assuming that the guy would be sensible and provide a canned, previously written intro to anyone who inquired about his services. I do NOT think that the typos come from fast typing.

I'm not dissing the guy's competence as a therapist because I don't know anything about him. I'm just saying that his "brochure" text comes across as unprofessional and gives me a rotten first impression.

Nero, if you know this guy, then you can definitely vouch for him. I think that's half of what's being asked about in this thread.
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JakeDenver

If this guy is really legit I may have to look into using him. I would have to check around here though and see if the letters would be accepted. Who all would I have to check with? Just my endo? More information on this guy would be great Nero if you dont mind.
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tekla

He responded fast because most of that was boilerplate, the same stuff sent out to everyone.  That there are so many mistakes does not fill me with confidence.
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Janet_Girl

I am looking at his site. but I wonder if he is recognized in the US.  Would Bowers, McGinn, Meltzer or Nguyen accept his recommendation?

If so, next would be financing SRS.

Janet

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vanna

I have started to use Dr Peveller for 2nd referral and he seems a very caring and genuine therapist you just need to get over the online and spelling mistakes lol i cannot even write without a spellchecker so i take with a pinch of salt ofc
His credentials check out

Thank you Joe btw
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krptcmschfmkr128

Janet, he says that his credentials are accepted in the US.

My question is Canada. Landon's supposed to be looking into it, cuz if so I'd help pay for half of his sessions. I'll have to kick his ass into gear.
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Nero

Hi Krypt. I'll ask him about Canada tonight and get back to you.  :)
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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krptcmschfmkr128

We'd already been talking about it. He's not really sure, it all really depends on the doctor, I think. So Landon's gotta talk to his doctor.
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El

I just spoke to Dr Peveller over the phone for the first time, seems like a very nice man. Havent booked my first sesh yet so watch this space :D

I have to say just talking to him has filled me with happiness, maybe now ill make some progress instead of sitting around feeling sorry for myself


Update: Email recieved

QuoteDear Catheryne


I thank you for you online enquiry it was good to chat briefly over the telephone.  I would be pleased to assist you in general over an initial four sessions.  The best time for me would be at 10 a,m your time most days  one day a week is usually used to each session.  I am now enclosing details of the service I offer if after reading you have any question please do not hesitate in contacting me further.


II am a fully qualified USA and United Kingdom (U.K.) trained 'Gender Specialist' who provides support, counseling and assessment of gender identity issues, readiness for hormones and,  if desired,  sex reassignment and/or related surgeries for both Trans men and women.



Online gender counseling can be accessed from home, the office or even a local library. This convenience and confidentiality provides a solution for many persons suffering gender related conditions and issues who may be concerned about the stigma associated with seeing a therapist/counselor. The online counseling takes approximately three months to complete the requirements of a letter of recommendation for hormones and for most a further three months for the recommendation of surgery.  All with a minimal amount of telephone support. Gender counseling, therefore, provides a long lasting and clinically proven improvement for transgender clients especially for those with close to zero computer skills.



ONLINE SESSIONS

For Transgender related issues such as cross dressing behavior, I suggest four pre-booked sessions which are then later reviewed. For Transsexual clients requiring assessment leading to a letter of recommendation for Hormones (HRT) this is normally carried out within 12 sessions. The assessment period for SRS or top surgery can be for most, no more than a further three months (12 sessions); this is followed by the letter the  for surgery, if appropriate. Clients normally require one session per week over the assessment period, each session is of one (1) hour duration.



LETTERS OF RECOMMENDATION - for Criteria go to - http://www.gendertherapist.com/criteria.html

I am registered in both the UK and USA as a professional counselor and gender specialist, my letters of recommendation are accepted worldwide. To verify go to http://www.counselling.ltd.uk/member/6394.html or http://www.sexchange.us/about.html I am a professional member of the American Counseling Association (ACA) USA and an equivalent association (CCC) U.K.



STANDARD OF CARE GUIDELINES

Although endeavoring to adhere to suggestions outlined in the Harry Benjamin Standards of Care guidelines - Sessions are flexible to individual needs and circumstances.



PROFESSIONAL FEES

My online Professional fees are 30 Euro per single session, due to this service requiring multi sessions (one (1) session per week) the total overall cost of this service is discounted, you may purchase sessions at a reduced fee (blocks of four (4) sessions at a discounted rate of 80 Euro plus (5 Euro transfer fee) - equal to (20 Euro  as follows:





  Note: there is a Bank charge or Western Union (WU) transfer fee. The above discount significantly reduces session costs so provides for the added transfer charge.



Please note: On issuance an administration fee of 80 Euro is normally charged for each letter of recommendation. Session fees are normally paid in advance.



WESTERN UNION TRANSFER AND BANK TRANSFER DETAILS (UK)



Details for sending my professional fee by Western Union transfers are as follows: they can be paid either online through http://www:westernunion.com or by using a WU agent (recommended) To locate an agent – carry out a search on the 'Western Union' website there are normally agents  in some banks, exchange centers and local Stores.



(Please ask for payout in USD)

Graham L Peveller (Do not forget the middle name initial 'L') 
Cityland Square
Makati City.
Manila.
Philippines.



After sending WU, please email etherapy@gmail.com with the following information:

1. WU Control Number (10 digit number)

2. Full name of sender

3. Amount sent

4. Where from: City/State

Ot sure


UK AND EUROPE ONLY – Bank transfer

A/C Name: Graham L A Peveller
(Non residential account)
Barclays Bank 0046 Branch
Av. Ramon Y Cajal 1
Marbella
Malaga
Spain 29600
Account Number 0065-0046-41-0021050826
IBAN ES40 0065 0046 4100 2105 0826
BIC BARCESMM





We also accept PayPal (send fee payable to glpeveller@gmail.com)





TIME DIFFERENCE (WORLD TIME ZONES)

Currently we are 7 hours ahead of you time in Britain UK sessions may be arranged between 7 a.m. – 8p.m. (my time). (As suggested 5 p.m. i a good time



ARRANGING APPOINTMENTS

To book appointments online directly through the chat box on my website simply go to http://www.gendertherapist.com on the opening page close to the top are chat boxes, when using the chat box (PLEASE BE PATIENT)   If later you are unable to keep your appointment, kindly give 24 hours notice. Otherwise, a charge may be made for time reserved.



PERSONAL INFORMATION FORM

Attached is a standard 'Confidential' and Personal information 'BIO' form, please complete and email it back to me. Preferably before our initial session as the completed form not only gives me some basics about you, but it also enables me to decide how best to assist you.



CONFIDENTIALITY

Counseling sessions are carried out in strict confidence and cover all aspects of gender dysphoria and related issues together with advice, guidance, support and information. As with any other Counseling/Therapy we as therapists are duly bound by a strictly enforced and adhered to 'Professional code of ethics'.



Finally, I thank you for your valuable enquiry and hope that the above is what you are seeking. I look forward to hearing from you and hopefully working together soon.  To chat direct use this link:   http://messenger.providesupport.com/messenger/gender.html




Dr. Graham L Peveller
Gender Specialist
http://www.gendertherapist.com
http://messenger.providesupport.com/messenger/gender.html  - (direct link to chat box)
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Chrissty

Quote from: El on June 27, 2009, 06:42:09 AM
I just spoke to Dr Peveller over the phone for the first time, seems like a very nice man. Havent booked my first sesh yet so watch this space :D

I have to say just talking to him has filled me with happiness, maybe now ill make some progress instead of sitting around feeling sorry for myself.

El...I'm so pleased you are making some progress.. :)

..I really hope this works out for you ;)

:icon_hug:

Chrissty
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