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Reasons To Date A Transguy

Started by sneakersjay, March 25, 2009, 12:09:29 PM

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Elwood

Quote from: Janet Lynn on March 26, 2009, 11:37:23 AM
I still believe in what I said and this will be my last post here.  I am sorry that point was misunderstood, but I stand by it.

Janet
I agree with you. A lot of transguys will deny they have anything to do with women. They're just trying to protect their ego. :/
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Sephirah

Hmm...

Is likely to have the sex drive of a three-horned rhino coupled with no danger of premature ejaculation.

Also known as the Jackhammer Effect. ;)
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3
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myles

I believe  (won't use we here) I do have the advantage of understanding women better heck I've lived one for almost 40 years.
I just have to laugh about the getting ready thing because my partner and I are so opposite. When people ask me what I learned in the Marine Corps I say how to take a 30 second shower. I take all of 15 minutes to get ready she takes at least an hour sometimes more, but I have to say she looks beautiful when she's done!
I don't think T will void my mind of the time I spent as a women (or I should say pretending to be a women), and that knowledge will come in handy later. I am a pretty easy to talk to person and a good listener I am hoping friends will not think that has gone away.
Myles
"A life lived in fear is a life half lived"
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Jay



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Sephirah

Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3
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Jay

Quote from: Leiandra on March 26, 2009, 01:26:23 PM
Only on the night of a full moon. :P ;) :-*

Oh thats how it is eh? looks outside ;)

Jay


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Yasuko

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Birdie

The number one reason to date a transguy is that he smiled at me in the waiting room of the gender clinic and my heart jumped up out of my mouth and ran accross the room and covered him in hugs and kisses screaming "Marry Me! Marry Me!".

Or something like that...   ;)

I was too shy to ask him out though.  :'(

But there's always the next appointment, maybe we'll be synchronised again!
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hayden.

Quote from: Elwood on March 26, 2009, 11:57:49 AM
I agree with you. A lot of transguys will deny they have anything to do with women. They're just trying to protect their ego. :/

or some of us just really don't. ;)
aside from the body i was originally put into (unfortunately), i have nothing to do with a woman.
well, unless you count being romantically involved with them, of course.
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Aiden

Sometimes a woman will talk to a guy though if they think their talking to a woman lol...  so in that way we can get some insight bioguys don't evn if we don;t entirely understand it, some of us might have heard from women what kind of things they like, don;t like etc.
Every day we pass people, do we see them or the mask they wear?
If you live under a mask long enough, does it eventually break or wear down?  Does it become part you?  Maybe alone, they are truly themselves?  Or maybe they have forgotten or buried themselves so long, they forget they are not a mask?
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sneakersjay

After my last couple of experiences emailing women online, I think I'm done.  They're cuckoo! 

And I can say that because holy cr*p I used to be that way!!  Estrogen is the crazy hormone!!

Run, dudes, run!!

Jay

(tongue in cheek and no offense to the ladies!)


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Janet_Girl

Wait I am not cuckoo.  Ditzy, yes.  But not cuckoo.  ;)

Janet

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sneakersjay

Quote from: Janet Lynn on April 08, 2009, 11:16:44 PM
Wait I am not cuckoo.  Ditzy, yes.  But not cuckoo.  ;)

Janet

I work with a Russian guy and the rest are all women.  He's right when he says he works in the Cuckoo House!  (with a Russian accent, of course!)

Jay


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Michelle.

Clothes swap?

Who wants mens leather jackets, mens sports coats, mens dress shirts....?
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Aiden

Every day we pass people, do we see them or the mask they wear?
If you live under a mask long enough, does it eventually break or wear down?  Does it become part you?  Maybe alone, they are truly themselves?  Or maybe they have forgotten or buried themselves so long, they forget they are not a mask?
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Jay

Quote from: sneakersjay on April 09, 2009, 12:11:28 AM
I work with a Russian guy and the rest are all women.  He's right when he says he works in the Cuckoo House!  (with a Russian accent, of course!)

Jay

I agree with the Russian guy ;) I have a simular situtation where I work. In a team of only 3 men including me.. Crazy stuff eh?


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Michelle.

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BunnyBee

Quote from: myles on March 25, 2009, 04:42:05 PM
Still working on the do these clothes make me look fat one, why do people ask questions they don't want an honest answer too?
Myles

Why?  Because she wants you to lie, of course!  Most women probably think they are 10x fatter than you think they are, so they don't need your objective opinion to enlighten them to the truth.  They probably just want reassurance, esp that you find them attractive.  and stuff.

About the understanding women stuff, I understand what men are like, being privy to their conversations when the women are gone (so they thought) etc. and I do have an understanding of what the experience is of being a man (well enough to know I can't make it work for me at least.)  I will never understand what the heck men think though.  I am even still blown away by the things they sometimes say after all these years.  This is, of course, me and my individual brain, but if anybody makes the assumption that I understand men just b/c I've attempted to live as one for so long, they would be horribly mistaken.  Don't get them at all..

Um, and one to add:
No worries about bad aim at the toilet.
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Mister

I don't have anything in common with women, and it has nothing to do with ego.  My lady and I go out occasionally with another couple, who happen to be a FTM and a non trans woman (same as us).  Our ladies get to talking about... well... just about anything, and my FTM friend and I sit there and look at each other like, "What the f.. are they talking about?"

Just this last week he and I stood in amazement at his wife's ability to calculate how many pounds of brisket and how many lamb shanks she needed for passover of 28 people in less than five seconds.

Just because we were socialized the same doesn't mean the same things stuck.
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imaz

Quote from: Mister on April 10, 2009, 01:38:28 AM
I don't have anything in common with women, and it has nothing to do with ego.  My lady and I go out occasionally with another couple, who happen to be a FTM and a non trans woman (same as us).  Our ladies get to talking about... well... just about anything, and my FTM friend and I sit there and look at each other like, "What the f.. are they talking about?"

Just this last week he and I stood in amazement at his wife's ability to calculate how many pounds of brisket and how many lamb shanks she needed for passover of 28 people in less than five seconds.

Just because we were socialized the same doesn't mean the same things stuck.

Well, you're certainly not into group-think as you're own signature states. The binary crusader, praise the Lord. ;D
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