Certain males called "->-bleeped-<- ->-bleeped-<-s (admirers)" of whom I have met more than a few, are not a good gauge of what Kris was talking about since they will snap your bra strap whether they think you are a boy or a girl. Finding real boob in the bra would probably scare them, but silicone would be their lucky day!!!
It was when my level of annoyance with this reached a certain plateau, that I realized I was "not that kind of a girl".
Whether food servers have learned how TG's calculate tips, or I have been legitimately taken as a woman, my most frequent and welcome female pronouns come in nice restaurants. It is pleasant, and reasonably sincere on the server's part. (Female pronouns double the tip!!!)
On one occasion, where I did have hands coming toward the wrong area, I lapsed into "male voice" to tell the goof off, but when I did he immediately looked behind him to see if my "boyfriend" was behind him ready to do something "unpleasant". He left fast for one reason or the other (both acceptable), the funny thing was that I had my back to a mirror and he could have easily seen if a guy was behind him. (Wonder what his blood alcohol content was?)
I have not yet had the problem of mistaken identity when I was in male mode, but I have made some other first time out TG's nervous when I have used appropriate pronouns toward them and they had no idea I was "one of the girls".
