It depends on the type of jackassery.
I'm really looking for surgeons that know what they're doing, in terms of what kinds of outcomes are realistic. For example, I want an FFS surgeon who is aware of what kinds of facial structures have an aesthetic appeal. If the surgeon is a master sculptor of bone but doesn't give a ->-bleeped-<- about me as a person, that's cool, as long as he/she's driven to sculp the most beautiful face he humanly knows how to sculpt.
Anyway, bedside manner is overrated; vision, talent, and lots of good past results are severely under-rated.