haha...yeah, i'm pretty much in the same place right now.
i'm not out to my family, but i don't really present myself as a girl.
for example, friday afternoon a man came and knocked on our front door. when i answered he looked at me for a good twenty seconds, looked up at the sky, looked at me again, and then asked if i was the dad of the house. i busted out laughing and told my mom to come to the door. i told my mom what he'd said later, and her response was, "why would he think you're a boy?!?"
there's also a guy who lives next door to one of my friends. he was drunk when i met him, but i introduced myself to him by my girl name. he decided i was a guy and has refused to refer to me as anything but that. i ran into him at a bar last night and i was with a friend and this guy started talking about how he thought this guy (pointing at me) lived in his apartment complex. i ended up telling the friend i'd gone with that i was pulling this elaborate joke on the guy so he'd go along with it.
