The problem here is that you are attracted to a certain "type" of person, Kissy and that since you said you were attrcated to FTMs some decided that you were rolling all FTMs intio a huge conglomerate. You weren't but those who thought you were making the identification as a "group" id were upset about that.
There are people you find mesh with you and your last person that did so was FTM. It makes some sense that you might look for an FTM. It also makes sense that you won't find another FTM who's quite like your "ex."
I wouldn't worry too much about what the background of your attraction is. What is the foreground? Are they somehow compatible with you? Ate they domdortable for you to be around and with? Do they mesh with you and the friends and family you have in your life and wish to keep in your life.
And ya know what? My guess is that such people who fit your pattern will be the ones who will be the pool for your next love interest.
For the rest, just leave it. Anyone can be offended by your life and your desires and your ways of expressing that. It doesn't take much talent to be offended by the superficial. Most people can and do do that.
Look for someone who fits with your desire and don't worry too much about offending anyone else if you have no intention of offending. TBH, when that happens it's prolly them and not you who's having the problem.
Hope you find someone compatible.
Even if you find them online or in a bar or nightclub!!
Nichole
