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Started by Christian, May 14, 2009, 10:30:03 PM

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Christian

I just finished my first year in college and I'm technically 1/2 way through my sophomore year. I'm wondering if taking a year off to get on track with my transition is logical. It's really difficult constantly correcting people and I can't afford health insurance while in school (it isn't required at my university). If I return to school fall 2010 I will be a sophomore and 19...which is normal. Will changing my name and transitioning (At least starting hormones, if not top surgery) in my best interest? What is your experience with transitioning and college?
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Chamillion

in my experience, people who take a year off usually end up not going back. I just finished my first year at college as well. I just started T and am getting my name changed this summer so the timing worked out pretty good for me so it's not a big deal. I mean if you feel the need to take a year off to focus on transition then do it, only you know what's best for you, but just a warning that a lot of times taking time off doesn't work out so well.
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Arch

Can you afford health insurance while you're not in school, and will that health insurance cover trans-related expenses? I assume that your school has a health insurance plan; does it cover any trans stuff? How about mental health stuff? Is anyone at your counseling center qualified to advise you on trans issues? Do you need a lot of therapy? Will you need a T letter from a therapist, or will you be going the informed consent route? You will almost certainly need a letter for top surgery; that would probably mean at least three months of therapy, depending on the therapist.

Timing is important, too. Ideally, you could start hormones the day after your last final exam--I guess it's too late now, for this year--and schedule top surgery for the summer, too. That way, you wouldn't lose any time from school. Do you need to earn money for top surgery? Do you really want to take a whole year off? How distracted are you by your trans issues? Are your grades affected? Is there a real possibility that you'll drop out and not go back? Can you go to school part time? What are your plans for this summer? Can you stand to start HRT and go more than a few months without surgery?

Too many variables here, but maybe I gave you some things to think about. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk--I think you need fifteen posts before you can PM anyone, though.
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ilikepotatoes

As hard as transitioning in college feels, it's a heck of a lot easier than doing it in the real world.
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sneakersjay

I'd do it in college so I'd graduate with the right name and gender, then get a job.  See if your school has mental health and such available.  I used to have insurance through the school but it didn't cover much.  I also remember getting short-term emergency loans from school on occasion (funded by the alumni association) which I used for miscellaneous medical expenses.  I also worked.


Jay


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Christian

The problem is my summer is full (I'm working at a summer camp). I'll have money for health insurance at the end of the summer camp..but not enough for the school health insurance..it's a lot more expensive and only covers mental health care at the student clinic...the psychs at the student clinic won't write letters for trans people (legal malpractice stuff) so I'm pretty limited there. Also, tuition/room and board has gone up a lot since last year and I'd have to put all of my summer earnings towards that and books. The economy has struck everyone pretty hard, I suppose. (But seriously, $3500 for a dorm room + $1500 for meal plan?) It's a state school and I have a really amazing financial aid package but it's not enough for someone wanting/needing to transition. My other option is to work full-time and attend a community college and start living at home again..which I suppose isn't so bad.
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