Quote from: cindybc on May 25, 2009, 01:13:16 PM
Hi Pheonix
I am not meaning to be condescending but I do wish to ask an honest question.
I do not understand how you can identify as a woman and still have the wrong parts down there. If you have gone as far as you have, to the point of no return, why would you not want to complete the journey as congruently as medical science can make you. There are many like you here and I just wish to understand is all.
If I am to be supportive of others on this board I only seek to understand the reasoning behind this.
Cindy
Hi Cindy- I will take a stab at your question, and thank you for offering it in a very sensitive and warm way.
I have been on estrogen for 12 years, I have had a trachal shave, breast implants, extensive FFS, and have been living full time as a woman for 8 years. I have a passport with the F, annd SS also has me as an "F".
When I had my breast implants, I looked at my body, and saw my new breasts and the penis that remained, and all of a sudden I realized that I did not want SRS. I was completely satisfied with the wonder I discovered as I looked at my body with breasts and a penis. I looked totally beautiful.
Also, I have always had very good sexual response. Yes, the estrogen has changed my sexuality a good bit over the years, but I still maintain sexual function and enjoy the performance of the "parts.
So for me, I am a woman with a penis, I am just that lucky. 99% of health care professionals and others who have seen my body have been completely respectful. I have not felt dissed because of my body. Part of the reason is probably because I am very comfortable with myself and my body and expect others to also be comfortable.
I hope this helps a bit but please feel free to ask questions as they arise.