:o omg it has taken me so long to reply, sorry
I am so happy w the replies though ^o^ especially since I'm not even trying.
Eryk: I'm not sure I agree about the hair...I mean, I think if I cut the pieces at the sides shorter, it makes my face look rounder (so softer, more feminine), but with them I think it makes my face look more narrow (so angular) I may have some old pics...yeah here:


(was dying my hair XD) back then I was actually drawing my eyebrows on...but you can also see how I look sans lip piercings...actually here's another, older pic:

(stoned on a merry-go-round XD!)
and actually, when my hair was a little shorter and natural colour, I was working at walmart...and one guy said "you know you have sideburns?" (it was a completely retarded comment, but yeah ._.) I thought that's sortof what they look like...
actually guys I don't wear mascara, but eyeliner. and, actually, I
think males naturally have bigger, thicker, longer lashes than females...I could be wrong, I noticed it years ago and haven't paid any attention since...
Asher:"...dropped the brow tweezing..." all I do there is make sure I don't have a unibrow :x that's all.
Jamie: well, I'm not worried about the way I hold things or how much I use my hands...I mean I'm gay...so I can blame it on that I guess XD
anyway, I would like to get a binder. but I don't want to change anything else, and I don't think I should have to...and this is a whole nother argument really, but I think if someone tells you their gender, you should respect it...I'm not really trying to pass, I just wanted to know what people thought, as far as my facial structure, mostly. but I do appreciate all your replies and advice.