Wow alright so these are really crazy circumstances. Alright so I haven't posted on here in a while but I thought I should post what has been happening recently on here for laughs and giggles. The point I am at in transition would be not even starting for a long time because of family issues. I am however on a lower dosage of anti androgen for now, have had my facial hair removed, and a nose job which accidentally made my nose look feminine (even though the nose job was originally for my deviated septum to be made straight so I could breathe).
So all of these little details coupled with the fact that I have a naturally feminine voice (barely ever am called sir on the phone
), full lips, big eyes with tons of eyelashes have made me very androgynous to people.
I was hired by my employer about a couple weeks ago and the lady who introduced me to him said "she" in reference to me. Btw, I have short short hair. It was a long time ago and I thought he forgot about that and realized I was male. Well, apparently he didn't lol. He referred to me as "her" the other day, and my coworkers were beginning to refer to me as her and she as well. Of course, I love the fact that they are recognizing my true internal gender, but I had to clear things up sooner or later before people got the wrong impression and saw me entering the boys bathroom. At the end of the day, my cousin came in and we talked to him about something random so that she could throw in the comment "he's my cousin and he's great at his job!" so that my manager would get the impression. Well, he did and to top things off he walked in the boys bathroom when I was there later lol so I guess that reassures him in case he didnt get the hint.
I think this is crazy because I've always wanted people to see me as a girl and now alot of people have started to call me she, which I take as a compliment. On the downside, I knew I had to come out because the truth would have been exposed sooner or later. Where I work, alot of people who have known me for years as well as relatives visit often, and I know conflict would have happened once one of my old friends asks someone where I am and a worker replies "she's over there". Oh well, it was fun while it lasted lol I thought I should share this odd story! If anything, this happening just reassures me that I'll totally pass when I'm ready for hormone therapy and actually have some long hair!
Thanks for reading
